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    Date is 90 minutes late to attend concert, gets annoyed when woman goes without him: 'We were already cutting it close'

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    Ally Perry • Writer and Editor
    Jun 18, 2026 11:45 AM EDT

    Dating etiquette can sometimes get complicated, but the basics are very simple.

    Unless your date has done something to deserve otherwise, it is basic common sense that you try to be engaging, respectful, and on time. While there may be circumstances where one of those things is a struggle, all you can do is apologize and try to rectify that behavior in the future. If it means that things don't work out, that is just the way of the wild west of dating.

    While everybody has different likes and dislikes when it comes to picking a partner, one thing that is pretty much the same with all people is that they want to be treated with common courtesy. If you aren't capable of that, then you shouldn't be surprised if you get ghosted on a regular basis. 

    It seems like it is a common problem, as many people have dating horror stories that amount to the other person not showing up in the way that they should. When somebody sends the signal that they are not that interested, it is only fair that their date reacts to that appropriately. It is not really justified to get upset about it.

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    • A woman had been looking forward to going to a concert for some time and had invited a date along for the experience. She had clearly set out a timeline for him to arrive, so they would have time to eat something and then go to the venue, which was over an hour away.

      To her annoyance, it took him almost an hour and a half longer than it should have to come and meet her, and he didn't warn her beforehand. She decided that she would prefer to go to the concert alone, but she was left wondering if that was an overreaction.

    • Am I wrong for not letting my date come to a concert with me for being 1 and 1/2 hours late?

      I had been looking forward to this concert for weeks, and he knew how excited I was about it.
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    • We had plans to go together. The venue was far away (about 1 hour and 15 minutes), so I had told him beforehand that we should leave to the concert around 6:30 PM to make it on time. I had also told him that I hadn't eaten anything all day, so the plan was to get food before heading to the concert.
      via 1-1-dystopian
    • He was supposed to arrive at my house around 4:30-4:45 PM because he said he'll get ready in 10 and the road takes 20-30 min so we can eat together. We talked on the phone at 4 PM, and during the call I told him to charge my power bank a little too as I had forgotten it with him. He said he'd charge it for 10-15 min.
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    • He didn't end up arriving until 6:15 PM which is about an hour and a half late. By then, there was no time to get food, and we were already cutting it close for the concert. When I asked why he was so late, the only explanation he gave was that he was "charging my power bank."
      via 1-1-dystopian
    • What upset me most wasn't even just the lateness. If he knew he was going to be late, he could have called or texted me so I could at least eat something instead of waiting. I had planned my day around us going together.
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    • When he finally got to my house I got upset and told him I was going alone. He thinks I overreacted, but I feel like I communicated the timing clearly, he knew how important this concert was to me, and a quick message would have let me adjust my plans. Am I overreacting?
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    • VioletBreezyy he wasnt just late he was inconsiderate like he knew the plan
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    • GamblingGlamour NOR never wait around for a man or anyone else who doesn't value your time. You should have just left without him but I get it. Being that late is blatantly disrespectful.
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    • Careful_Drama405 I would have done the same thing. I do not tolerate people disrespecting my time.
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    • PuertoCebollas NOR. But imo you're also a bit silly for not eating anything while waiting.
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    • oldmomma831 This will be your whole life if you stay with him. Lots of disappointments and then being blamed for it ("charging your power bank"). Please don't ask me how I know. NOR.
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    • Think-Cry-5284 He was testing the waters. Seeing how much sabotage you will put up with.
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    • did_i_or_didnt_i nor don't give him any more chances
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    • TripMaster478 NOR. Is he always late? I find it really hard to be with people that are perennially late.
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    • satanicfries No and you should be glad he showed how he is early. Someone like that will not respect your feelings and go out of his way to make you feel special. Get in the bin, mate!
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    • Life_Temperature2506 | suppose you needed to wait for your power bank rather than ditch earlier? NOR the
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    • J-man300 NOR. He tried to make it your fault. You need this in your life why?
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