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Parent belittles her daughter's strict puppy training, sparks debate over boomer-logic dog ownership: 'Mom had our childhood pets overweight [and] reactive'

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  • Hi! My bf and I got our first puppy a week and a half ago and he's a 9 week old English lab. We did endless amounts of research on training and preparation for our baby
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  • and now that we have him, I'm realizing that many people truly don't care about training their dogs lol. My mom has been all over me saying that we are too "by the book" or too strict with
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  • our regimen for him. We already have him crate trained, he knows his name, how to stay, wait for food to be given an "okay", sit, down, and a bit more. He sleeps
  • throughout the night with one or two wake ups for potty. We don't allow him on the couch or bed yet because we are working on establishing
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  • boundaries that he has his space and we have ours. Eventually we will create a command for "up" or "off" so we can get him on or off with a command. She thinks it's
  • absolutely nuts that we don't let him actively roam the house or have access to every room. We let him explore but supervised. Most of his time is spent in his play
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  • pen with toys or his crate for his enforced naps to ensure he gets his 18 hours of sleep a day. He is doing great but I'm so over people giving their two cents saying things
  • like "but it's normal for him to chew your couch, he's just a puppy" or "let him jump all over you, he's just excited!" We're working on preventing his
  • jumping or not entertaining it when he does jump because eventually he will be around 70lbs and jumping won't be funny or cute anymore. My mom had
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  • our childhood pets overweight, food reactive, and weren't friendly with other dogs. I loved them to death but I'm realizing she is not in the place to give advice. I remember
  • they tore up our couch one time as puppies because she let them free roam while we left. I guess I'm just ranting to rant about how many people are telling us we
  • are too strict on him and how frustrating it is to hear this just because he has a schedule. Puppies are like babies! They need to have order and structure in their lives.
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  • Skull_Murray • This is why most dogs you meet on the street aren't that well behaved.
  • literarypetlife ⚫ You should probably just assert boundaries with people in addition to the puppy. "Thanks for the input but this is how we are raising our dog. You can do what
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  • you want with yours but this is what we are doing." Rinse and repeat every time they bug you.
  • Incidental Apex ⚫ Glad you did the research and are making an effort with your pup. A well trained dog is great to be around.
  • Juliet Dove88 · I puppy raise service dogs and you are doing everything right absolutely do not listen to them
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  • AG_Squared • Yeahhh my mom used to get onto me for having "too many rules" for the dogs but then she got a dog and suddenly she has more "rules" than we do.
  • Business-Fish-9137. I think most people don't actually realise how hard it is to be responsible dog owner either.
  • bassekong1⚫ I think it depends on where you live, in Norway most people have very well behaved dogs as there is much focus on training and «good >>> br ling.

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