19-year-old refuses to crash at his friend's parents' house because they confiscated his phone after curfew: 'I am a grown man'!

When do you become too old to take orders from your parents?

That differs for everyone, but it's safe to say that once you're over 18, you've moved out, and pay your own bills, you should be considered an adult whenever you visit your hometown. No matter what.  

My parents started treating me like an adult at an early age, trusting my opinion, letting me make mistakes, and most importantly, training me to be an independent person by the time I was truly going to be on my own. When I got to college, I resented this experience, hoping to regain some of my childhood years, but as I witnessed the childish behavior of the stunted 18-year-olds around me, I became grateful for my upbringing. My parents respected me, and they treated me like an equal, which prepared me for real life. Conversely, those around me struggled to sort their laundry, didn't know how to cut an apple, and couldn't do anything without calling Mommy or Daddy. Time to grow up, sweetie!

This pair of university friends came home from college and experienced a strange de-aging effect.

After spending a year living on their own in college, a pair of 19-year-old best friends returned to their hometown. While crashing at his friend's parents' house, one man realized exactly what it felt like to be babied again, in the worst way. Treating an adult like a child is weirdly demeaning. But what made this guy's experience at his friend's parents' house even weirder was that they weren't just trying to helicopter parent his buddy, they were trying to parent him, too. Sharing his story on Reddit's subreddit, r/AmIOverreacting, this 19-year-old learned exactly how overbearing and weird it was to be held to the same restrictions and standards as a young child, even after growing up and living on his own. 

How do you tell someone else's parents that they're suffocating your independence? Well, you first start by calling out the weirdness with your friend. That's where things got spicy for this young man, whose maturity was put to the ultimate test.