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Manager demands remote employee drive to the office on their 2nd day, forcing them to drive 90 minutes to the office 3 times a week for an RTO policy they weren't told about, they quit immediately instead : 'I thought he was joking. I laughed'

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    Took a fully remote job, day 2 the hiring manager casually mentioned he will see me at the office on Monday. Did I overreact by drafting my resignation that night?

    so i started a new job this week. the whole interview process i specifically asked multiple people about remote because im a primary parent during the school week and a long commute genuinely doesnt work for my life right now. every single person told me the role was fully remote. its in the written offer. i signed.
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  • 02
    day 2 of onboarding the hiring manager mentions in passing that h I see me at the office on monday. i thought he was joking. i laughed. he was not joking.
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    turns out two weeks before my start date the company quietly rolled out an RTO policy. three days a week, mandatory, in an office thats a 90 minute drive each way. apparently nobody updated the recruiter, the hr contact, the panel, or anyone else who told me during interviews that the role was fully remote. or maybe they did update them and they just chose not to mention it to me.
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    the hiring manager basically said the earlier info didnt reflect the most current policy and asked if that was gonna be a problem. i said i wasnt sure and i needed to think about it. he looked kind of irritated.
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    A remote worker gestures while on a video conference call
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    i drove home and pulled up a doc and started drafting a resignation email. didnt send it yet. spent the rest of the night going back and forth on it.
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  • 07
    on one hand. they lied to me. or they didnt update me. either way i made a major life decision based on information that turned out to be false. on the other hand. ive been in the job for literally three days. ive only met like four people. and i did sign an offer.
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    a friend told me to sit with it for a week and see if i can negotiate something. another friend told me to send the resignation tonight before i invest any more time. my partner is staying neutral.
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  • 09
    how badly does it look to leave a job after three days? is there a way to negotiate this or is this a "they lied to get me in the door and the rest of the job will be the same" situation thats not gonna get better? did i overreact by drafting a resignation on day 2?
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    A worker listens on a conference call
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    massacre0520 I would stay remote, let them fire you. It was previously agreed upon and if you go in you're going to lose this one. S ks either way, but that gives you a marginally better position than outright resigning.
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    drbroly In my workplace, people who joined during the p C were hired when remote working was the default. When RTO requirements were later introduced, they were exempt because their contracts were different. If you have it in writing that you would be remote, use that to push back.
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    InfoSecPeezy Do not show up, do not resign. If HR isn't in sync with the rest of the company, then they have big problems. You are not the problem here. This could fall under promissory estoppel if they try to force it, then you lawyer up. What you should do is ask your manager to email you about the policy and when it was officially put in place. Then continue to work from home until you need to hire a lawyer, or consult one as soon as you can.
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    dudee62 If I had a written offer that the job was fully remote I would probably tell them that I intend to stay with the job under the terms that employment was offered and continue to work remote. And be looking for another job as fast as I could.
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    bystander318 I wouldn't resign as many have said. Stand your ground and let them know that the position was negotiated in bad faith. You were recruited and promised in writing a remote position. A 90 minute commute s ks and if you decide to live with it there should certainly be a reconsideration on compensation. 90 minutes means 3hrs per day that you have to show up. Thats time you dont have as a primary partent. While you figure everything out keep looking for a new gig.

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