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Manager makes me work 14 hours if 3rd shift doesn’t show up, rather than letting me close and go home. Could use some advice
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Employees who reliably show up quickly become the “safe” choice. Managers know who answers the phone, who agrees to stay late, and who will tolerate extra pressure without immediately quitting. Like with anything in life, over time, that reliability stops being appreciated and starts becoming an expectation. The dependable worker becomes the emergency plan for every scheduling problem and every strain on the business. With the added stress and responsibilities, becoming a major source of burnout for that hard-working employee.
The staff member who disappears creates the problem, but the dependable worker who has turned up time and time again becomes the one facing backlash. And it, again, comes to this expectation. In the manager or owner's mind, the undependable and flaky staff are just that; that behavior is expected of them. But the staff shouldering the burden have become expected to do so, and when they fail to meet that expectation, they are met with backlash, disappointment, and even reprimand.
The employee standing there, the one who has shown up where their coworkers have not, has to decide whether to sacrifice their time, their health, and their boundaries. If they leave, they risk being accused of abandoning the job. If they stay, the expectation that they cover for others' mistakes gets further reinforced. It really is right between a rock and a hard place, with nowhere to turn.
People working these jobs are often already under financial stress. They may depend on every paycheck, making it difficult to push back even when expectations become extreme.
And, well, we see stories like these resonate online because they expose a larger issue many of us who are employed recognize immediately: Businesses frequently celebrate reliability while quietly relying on those same employees to make sacrifices for them. - 03
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