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Daughter takes her mom's dream vacation to Scotland with her mom's least favorite sister after being excluded from family trips and used as a house sitter, sends her daily photos from the trip

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  • Woman in black jacket leaning on wooden railing outdoors, looking back with a subtle smile among trees.
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  • After being left out of multiple family trips, I went on my mom's dream vacation to Scotland

    My mom is constantly taking trips with my sister, her husband, and their kids. I'm
  • always the one they ask to watch their house and animals while they're gone. I have
  • always felt left out of family vacations and that my mom prefers my sister over me.
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  • I recently saved up enough money to take a trip of my own. My mom has always wanted to
  • go to Scotland, it's like a life dream for her. I decided that I was going to take my own vacation to
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  • Scotland and for a companion, I chose my aunt who is my mom's least
  • Woman in black jacket standing by wooden railing outdoors, looking down thoughtfully with blurred city in background.
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  • favorite sister and the only family member that supports me. My
  • mom is constantly arguing with my aunt, probably because she's
  • always been jealous of her lifestyle (aunt is very wealthy).
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  • Of course my mom begged me to take her instead but I absolutely refused
  • her, stating my reasons (never being included in her trips and using
  • Smiling woman in black jacket outdoors near water, looking at camera with natural blurred background.
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  • me as a dog/house sitter). I made sure to send her updates of everywhere I went and sent all my pictures to her daily.
  • different-take4u Bravo! For putting yourself first and choosing a traveling companion that also shares in the joyfulness of being petty.
  • scooby946 The best revenge is a life well lived.
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  • Feral-Sheep That sounds like the perfect response. Don't fall for the BS "I'll include you in future trips". She
  • deliberately created a very toxic dynamic where sister is the "golden child" and you're not. It is something that narcissists often do
  • to their children. Read Stephanie M. Kriesberg's Adult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers to give you more context. I
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  • suspect that she dislikes your aunt because her aunt calls her out on her BS. Lean into your aunt and make sure you are
  • setting up healthy boundaries for yourself and ensuring your mother respects them.

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