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Resident refuses to sign for any more of her neighbor's deliveries after a lost package leads to an awkward confrontation: ‘I don’t want to be responsible for someone else’s stuff’

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  • Woman signing for her neighbor's delivery package as a kind favor.
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  • I live in an apartment building where packages sometimes need to be signed for if the person isn't home. My neighbor across the hall asked me a few months ago if I could sign for her deliveries if I happened to be around.
  • At first I didn't mind. It wasn't frequent, and I'd just hold onto them until she got home.
  • Over time though, it became a regular thing. I was getting knocks from delivery drivers a few times a week. Sometimes I'd come home and find multiple boxes outside my door because they'd just leave them with me automatically.
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  • Then about a month ago, one of her packages went missing. I had signed for it, brought it inside, and left it by my door like usual. When she came to pick it up later that evening, it was gone.
  • Woman's hand signing an electronic delivery receipt on a mobile app for a received package.
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  • I don't know if someone in the building took it or if it got mixed up somehow, but it wasn't there anymore.
  • She didn't outright accuse me, but she kept asking questions about where I put it and who might've had access. The whole thing felt uncomfortable, especially since I was just trying to help.
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  • After that, I told her I'm not comfortable signing for her packages anymore. I suggested she use the building's package lockers or have things delivered to her workplace instead.
  • Side view of a white delivery van parked on a suburban street.
  • Now she's annoyed and says I'm overreacting to one incident and that neighbors are supposed to help each other out.
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  • I get that, but I also don't want to be responsible for someone else's stuff, especially after something already went wrong. AITA?
  • CeejayMyers NTA, she can get a P.O. Box.
  • mistdaemon You brought it inside? Do you mean inside your apartment or inside the apartment complex? If you are signing for packages and just leaving them outside of your door, that is a problem.
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  • killerwithasharpie "Sorry, I wasn't home."
  • carol-c2 NTA - her packages, her problems. You mentioned that your building has parcel lockers, why can't she use them?
  • PrincessBella1 NTA. You did her a huge favor and now you know what she does when one is misplaced, you are in your right to refuse to deal with this.

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