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Tailor offers to fix her friend’s wedding dress for free, then gets stuckedwith a $700 bill and no invitation to the wedding: ’10 days before the wedding, Jen said she wasn’t going to finish’

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    Woman works on a tailored wedding dress in her studio.
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    I got married a few years ago. My friend (let's call her Jen) is a professional tailor.
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    When we told her about the engagement, she generously offered that as a wedding present, she would do pro bono alterations
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    for not only my wedding dress, but my wife's as well.
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    The wedding was scheduled for October 15. My then-fiancée and I separately went dress shopping in January. My fiancée's
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    dress was scheduled to arrive in June, and mine would come in late July. I checked with Jen to see if that time frame would work for her, she said yes.
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    We started fittings in early August. She would would on the dress here and there, and then we'd meet back up for refittings and adjustments throughout August and September.
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    Then it was October, and we were cutting things close (no pun intended). On the 5th
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    (10 days left before the wedding) Jen said that she wasn't going to be able to finish the alterations before the wedding after all. She
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    Tailor woman fixing wedding dress.
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    still had several steps left to do, and she was about to go out of town. She was super apologetic, recommended another tailor, and offered to pay for the remaining alterations. She also
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    gave me a detailed explanation about what still needed to be done, so I could tell the tailor. Jen estimated that it would probably cost $100- 200.
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    Tailor and bride are upset over wedding dress alterations.
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    For a rush job that ended up being a lot of finishing touches, the cost was $700. I
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    have no idea if the second tailor majorly ripped me off, or if Jen just underestimated what was left to do, but I wasn't about to start haggling right before my wedding.
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    Jen had already offered to cover the expense, but since she hadn't planned on $700, I offered to split the cost halfway with her instead. She was
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    Woman counting dollars from her wallet.
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    shocked at the price tag, but agreed to pay half.
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    It was an extremely small backyard wedding, immediate family only, so Jen had always known she wasn't attending. I did
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    Couple having a small backyard wedding on a sunny day.
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    send her photos of my wife and I in our dresses, and made sure to thank her for all her hard work.
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    Friend taking pictures of bride in her wedding dress.
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    There has never been a confrontation per se between Jen and myself, but we abruptly went from
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    seeing each other fairly frequently to not seeing each other at all, or even really texting. She and her husband host get- togethers from time to time, and I stopped getting invites. I've had
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    a couple people in my life suggest that I should have turned down her offer to pay for the remaining alterations to begin
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    Phone screen with no text messages.
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    with, and once I found out the price | definitely shouldn't have followed up on her paying for any of it, let alone half. AITA?

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