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Stepdad cuts his 17-year-old son's long hair to punish him for skipping class: 'I felt that cutting his hair over it was cruel and horrible.'

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  • A young man with acne and long hair looking at the camera
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  • My husband cut off my son's hair, so I used his credit card to buy my son the designer jacket he's been wanting. Am I wrong for doing that?

    My son is 17, and pretty much all his life has had long hair. He had long, thick, and very well maintained black hair that went just past his chest, and he loved it.
  • My husband, his step-dad, has never been a fan of it and has always thought it was girly.
  • He's never been mean or cruel about it to my sons face, but he has said to me that he thinks he should cut it off.
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  • The two of them got into a huge fight because my son has been skipping his classes, and my husband decided that to punish him, he was going to cut his hair.
  • I dont know how it went down, but when I came home, my son was crying and cutting his own hair in the mirror.
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  • A person with a shaved head wearing a white shirt
  • I asked him what was wrong and what he was doing and he told me my husband had randomly cut his hair short in spots and now he had to cut it really short to even it out and make it look okay.
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  • I went and spoke to my husband to find out the specifics of what happened from his side as well and it ended up in yelling because while I dont agree with my son skipping classes I felt that cutting his hair over it was cruel and horrible when this could've been resolved another way.
  • To cheer up my son, I bought him this affliction leather jacket that he's wanted for a while out of my husbands money.
  • A black leather jacket laying on top of a bed
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  • My husband found out and was furious but I told him he shouldn't have cut my sons hair and he can do this as an apology.
  • It's going to take years for my sons hair to grow back, but my husband can make that money back quickly.
  • Hammingbir YTA for not protecting your son. YTA for allowing his step-father to assault him. YTA for thinking an expensive gift (purchased with a purloined credit card) makes everything okay. Your poor kid. What terribly lessons are you teaching him???
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  • hebejebez Honey please please sit your son down and ask for all of it all of the small and big things your partner has done or said. I can guarantee he has just taken it and not told you as it seems like he's quite a sensitive soul who might see you happy and just s k it up for you. So please, ask him. It might break your heart but for your relationship with your son you need to know
  • ithinkantsarecute Original Poster's Reply There's been a long conversation, and he's told me about things that have happened when I'm not around. There are so many things I was unaware of. I've found out his step-brother, who is 19, has also been heavily involved in many things that have been done to my son. I'm devastated and furious. I've been up all night dealing with this legally.
  • Life_Temperature2506 Can't wait for step-dad to escalate this game cause, you know, you're allowing it.
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  • Garden_gnome1609 You should divorce this man. If someone did that to my child that would be it. The relationship would be over. He thinks it's ok to ignore someone's bodily autonomy? How'd he like a taste of his own medicine? He would not like how I gave it to him.
  • lydocia This would be an instant divorce for me.

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