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'My parents left me with less than nothing': 10+ Millennials open up about what it's like to financially support their parents

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  • An adult man embraces his older mother as they share morning coffee.
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  • Inheritance? That's a joke. How many of your parents are burdens?

    In response to another popular post about receiving no inheritance. Are your parents like mine, who not only are not leaving any money behind - but require significant or total financial support?
  • My parents left me less than nothing. They're good people, and they were good parents.... but man are they sit at financial planning.
  • A woman visits her senior father in his home and hands him a present.
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  • Safe-Tennis-6121 My parents are doing okay, I just have a brother who lives with them who has never worked. That's going to be a problem eventually.
  • BeegBunga Original Poster's Reply >That's going to be a my problem eventually. blessings to you friend
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  • closetcreatur Yeah I grew up with a silver spoon in hand. Then in 2008 things started to change and by 2012 my parents had lost their small business, house and vehicles. I was in college then so I wasn't doing a lot to be able to help. Now I employ my mom as a nanny and my Dad unfortuantely had a st during that 2012 area. He gets d y and he's kind of there, e just not the same anymore. Its a real downer for me and my 2 other sibilings but they were great parents just the typical "you're the grea
  • BeegBunga Original Poster's Reply You have learned great lessons. I am with you - the difficulties of my relationship with my parents and money have really stressed what is important in life.
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  • Decepti_Con04 They share a house with my sister and her family. They bailed her out 100 times over the years (she is/was a disaster), so the onus will be on her.
  • igotabeefpastry My brother is very religious and he apparently had a personal revelation from God that he should take care of my parents as they age. Got to thank God here because my brother works for big tech and I am just a humble teacher with no money to spare.
  • KOQquest1 Same here with the brother situation.
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  • Beeg Bunga Original Poster's Reply Ahhh, the old sibling anchor.
  • An adult man embraces his retired father as they look out the window together.
  • Basic_Asparagus_9084 My dad asked to borrow my car so he can meet a hook up. So... that's where I'm at.
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  • martiantheory Yeah, my parents blame me for not having a retirement. I love them dearly. But they make very boomer comments sometimes like "I don't get to retire because I took care of you". I'm always thinking, no mom, you bought a new piece of furniture every d a month, for most broke. My of my life. That's why you're f siblings and I have jokes about how much unused furniture my mom has. One day we counted more than 50 different chairs in her house I actually went to therapy to process a lot
  • kosmic_kandy My parents don't have any retirement savings, my brother lives with them but hasn't worked a regular job in about a decade, I try not to think of the outcome because it's not going to be good.
  • Chemical_Ad_55... My dad fleeced me for $150,000 and wants to leave whatever he might have in the end to his girlfriend, while asking me to develop his property for free.
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  • buickmccane One parent openly doesn't believe in handing money down, even though she received an inheritance herself. She will spend lavishly on herself until the end. The other parent hopes to leave something, what I am not sure, but he seems genuine about it.
  • If I get something, great. I expect nothing. I'm not bitter either way and have no negative feelings.

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