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Coworker calls same-level colleague 'annoying' after they refuse to do their job for them: 'I'm stuck working with someone who expects me to babysit them'

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  • Two women coworkers side eye each other at a desk
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  • Coworker said I'm annoying because I refuse to do her work for her.

    First post here. I mostly just need to vent because today really rubbed me the wrong way. A few months ago our team hired a new girl after two previous hires turned out to be disasters (honestly I blame our hiring manager at this point). She came in claiming she had tons of customer service experience. Pretty quickly though, she started bad-mouthing literally everyone. It gave me the ick
  • immediately, but I kept my head down and just focused on my own work. Her work style is basically the embodiment of "do just enough so I don't get fired." She spends a lot of time scrolling Facebook during work and doesn't even try to hide it.
  • We work in customer service, and a big part of our job is answering emails. Our company promises customers a response within 5 days, so keeping up with the inbox is important. I've had to remind her multiple times when deadlines are getting close. Today I noticed one of her customers had been waiting almost the full response window, so I gave her a friendly reminder. She asked me what the
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  • customer's problem was. I said I didn't know and that she could just check the file, all the communications and memos are recorded there so you can see the full history. That was literally the whole interaction. After that she spent the rest of the day huffing and puffing around the office. At one point she was grunting and sighing so
  • much that I made the mistake of asking if something was wrong. - She told me to my face — that - it was annoying that I didn't just tell her what the customer wanted and that she had to spend time reading through the memos....which is literally the job.
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  • If it were my client, I'd have to read the file too. That's how you know what's going on before responding. I honestly didn't even know what to say. I kind of went non-verbal, ended the conversation, and walked away. Now I just feel like I'm stuck working with someone who expects me to babysit them while we're getting paid the same. And
  • then have the audacity to tell me to "fix my behavior". I don't think I can even be cordial with her anymore after today. Anyway, thanks for listening to my rant. Just needed to get that off my chest.
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  • Commenters

    Calm_Researcher9172 "Fix your behaviour" and stop babysitting her then. She'll only have herself to blame when she gets fired for not adhering to company policy. Keep note of your interactions so she doesn't try to blame you for her incompetence.
  • katinthewoodss I assume next time you won't bother to tell her, and you'll let her fall flat on her ass.
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  • tryingtohydrate Good news! Actually sounds like you don't have to babysit her, unless you're her hiring manager or training her, cuz she rudely dismissed your help. Not ur responsibility right?
  • Latvian-Spider "Fix my behavior" well, hope she likes getting into trouble for not doing her job when clients start complaining.
  • HI_IOla Well, she s ks. I think that if you're not her supervisor or responsible for training her, then it's probably best to keep your communication with her to a minimum. Stay cordial but distant. If she's not reaching out for assistance/clarification from you, then there's no need for you to proactively reach out to her with reminders of staying on task with her assigned work. You need to let her fail on her own or let her supervisor deal with her.
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  • TangerineCouch 18330 Don't help her and don't give her any heads up for anything. She needs to fail so she gets fired. She's totally wrong for the job and they need to hire someone else who cares about the position.
  • soulsteela in Don't warn her again, let her fail, she was unemployed for a d good reason.
  • j4kich4n Going through a simular situation, this girl gets angry when you tell her what to do, but the things we're telling her to do are her job. We don't want to keep reminding her of her responsibilities, our whole team is ready for her to go. R de, entitled, and lazy. I'm that quiet person that tries not to get involved, but I do think I need to voice my concerns to the boss as I'm reaching my breaking point here. She needs to go.
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  • AellaReeves You tried to be nice. Now you need to step back and let her fail. Not your problem she can't do her job. The hiring manager made another mistake and they can clean it up.
  • Global-Hair-810 Stop "babysitting" her. What happens to you if you don't reminder her to do her work? You're her coworker not her manager.

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