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Mom lends son $60, sends debt collector to his house when he pays her back a day late: 'I've loaned my mom money for years'

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  • The back of a man's head as he stands in front of a front door
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  • I’ve been my mom’s ATM for years… and she went full Tony Soprano over $60.

    i've loaned my mom money for years. "i'll pay you back friday" type stuff. she almost never does, and i stopped expecting it.
  • last week i was short and borrowed $60 from her. i planned to send it back the next day, but i got food poisoning and was basically de d for 24 hours.
  • i paid her one day late. today a huge guy shows up at my door saying he's here to collect.
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  • A sick man wrapped in a blanket while sitting in bed
  • i legit thought it was a scam at first. nope. my mom sent him. it's not about the $60.
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  • it's the humiliation and the message: she can take from me for years, but if i slip once, she'll intimidate me.
  • how do you deal with a parent like this. do you cut them off fully. do you warn them once.
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  • i feel shaken and honestly kinda scared.
  • The hands of an older woman counting coins on a table
  • KramerJay666eh Nah, this is too far f ed. You cut them off completely, ruthlessly, and go absolute no-contact. Napalm that ' relationship.
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  • classicicedtea >> do you cut them off fully Yes.
  • 2punornot2pun That is absolutely insane. That's a move-away-find-another- job-disappear forever type sh.
  • Fantasy-Bookkeeper if Cheese and crackers batman. Even you don't cut them off from your life, at the VERY least stop being her own personal bank.
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  • delafetz Tell the huge guys he gets way more money if he does the same to your mum... ;)
  • EconomyProof9537 Normally I advocate for communication but not this time. I'm a ruthless bit when crossed. Yo momma not only crossed the line she violated & stomped on it. Nope cut her completely off.
  • Phoenyx_wilson Guess its time to write a list of times she has borrowed off you and never paid it back add it all up and leave it with her.

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