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Boss calls employee he fired on Christmas, asking for unpaid weekend help as a favor "as a friend” after his wife and only other worker quit, but the former employee refuses

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  • Not your buddy, pal.

    Young man standing in a modern kitchen holding a smartphone close to his face, speaking into it as if recording a voice message or using voice commands.
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  • In December, I was laid off from a small family business. I'd been there four years.
  • Mr. Boss hoped to hire me back "when business picks up". Maybe. I told him it was cool to reach out to me, but was clear I wouldn't be waiting around.
  • I started a new job this week. It's going incredibly well. I've also gotten three very long panicked voicemails from Mr.
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  • Boss this week... The only other employee, (his wife) left him and the business. She didn't train him on how to do our jobs.
  • Man wearing glasses and a plaid shirt sitting outdoors, holding a smartphone in both hands and taking a photo or recording a video near a waterfront promenade.
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  • She just packed up her sh and left. She won't answer his calls. Not sure how this is my problem... Now he expects me to come in and train him "As a favor to a friend".
  • Not being rehired, totally unpaid and out of the goodness of my heart. Nope! He laid me off two weeks before Christmas!
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  • Also... He'd love me to come in Saturday or Sunday, because that "works for him". NOPE... I don't care what works for him, because I don't work for him anymore!
  • We aren't "friends" and it's NOT my problem. The audacity is audaciting! It astounds me that a business owner would think this is an okay thing to do.
  • Smiling red-haired man with a beard talking on a smartphone in a modern home office with a brick wall, shelves, and a clock in the background.
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  • SuppleSuplicant Given what he did to you and his wife leaving him high and dry, I'm going to guess he has a problem with taking people for granted.
  • auntiechrist23 Original Poster's Reply BINGO. Without too much tea spillage... You hit the nail on the head.
  • Jatin 1976 Tell him you want $X equivalent to 6 months pay upfront for 2 weeks of training
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  • auntiechrist23 Original Poster's Reply I'd feel like a baller and a shotcaller!
  • SuppleSuplicant This would be my response to him.
  • auntiechrist23 Original Poster's Reply I'm definitely putting this on my list of responses!
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  • olneyvideo Call the wife and ask if she would like to meet for a drink. Take a selfie with her. Send it to him.
  • auntiechrist23 Original Poster's Reply He was a big carnivore diet guy... No wheat, corn, or processed food. Holding up two corn dogs just feels karmically right!
  • MyDarlingArmadillo She'd already left him and he still thought that was the way to go? Firing his only other option just before Christmas and thus making sure you'd never lift another finger for him while making himself completely reliant on someone who's already essentially dumped him? What an idiot.
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  • auntiechrist23 Original Poster's Reply I'm as baffled as anyone. You'd think that would be an indication. His hubris is so strong you can smell it from space.
  • Gazelles-r-cool Nah spill that tea, we want the details please. It's not like any of us are going to be able to identify a one person business.
  • auntiechrist23 Original Poster's Reply His ex moved out a few months before my layoff! He took for granted that she'd keep working. I think he treated her like an employee all the time.
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  • PFic88 The lion, the witch, and the Audacity of this B !! The Nerve!
  • auntiechrist23 Original Poster's Reply I'm a Leo sun/rising, and I'm definitely on my last nerve! ✔
  • Longjumping-Air 1489 How are you not friends? He's your best friend-he kept you employed for 4 years. You're his very good friend as well. I mean, not good enough to not play off two weeks before Christmas, but that's BUSINESS. Totally different than a favor for a friend, which is what this unpaid, not-hired-back, only on Saturday and Sunday cause other days are his golf days or whatever, thing that you would do for him cause you're SUCH GOOD FRIENDS!! /s
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  • auntiechrist23 Original Poster's Reply Right?!! I'm friends with his dog. His dog is awesome. That's good enough for me!
  • Past-Cap-1889 Tell him you'll do it, then block him.
  • auntiechrist23 Original Poster's Reply Petty perfection!
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  • HarleyDFLSTC I'm not your buddy, guy!
  • auntiechrist23 Original Poster's Reply I'm not your guy, pal!

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