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    20-year-old pays for multiple streaming services using 27-year-old brother's card, protests when he cancels them without warning: 'I saw several charges I didn't recognize'

    It can be tempting to let somebody else foot the bill without them knowing.

    This is one of the dangers of our convenience-based society, where every device we own is linked up to our bank details: all it takes is one opportunistic person to decide that they don't want to pay for something, and all of a sudden, your hard-earned dollars seem to be disappearing without explanation. Too many of us do not learn the lesson of being careful about our financial safety until it is too late.

    What's worse is that the people who take advantage of this kind of thing can often be those whom you trust the most. Family members can prove to be your worst enemy when it comes to matters of money, usually because they think that they can use you for it without facing any consequences. It goes without saying that, even putting aside the ethical implications, this is a bad decision to make. The amount involved doesn't always matter, as it is the breach of trust and the ensuing disagreement that is going to cause the real problems. Nobody wants to think that somebody they are closely related to is using them for money.

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    • In this story, an older brother paid a very literal price when his college-aged sister was staying with him. He agreed to let her move in while she was going through a difficult time, allowing her to log on to his TV, which was connected to his debit card.

      As it turns out, she took the liberty of purchasing three extra streaming services with his money. When confronted, she claimed that he shouldn't care that much about it, as they didn't cost a lot. 

      In retaliation, the brother immediately canceled his subscriptions to all these services. She was upset, and their parents backed her up, but he wanted to know if he had really done something wrong.

    • Am I wrong for canceling my sister’s streaming subscriptions because she used my card without asking?

      So I (27M) found out last month that my younger sister (20F) had been using my debit card for multiple streaming services.
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    • It started when she was staying at my place during a rough semester at college. I let her log into my TV and watch stuff since I already had one platform.
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    • Turns out she quietly added three more accounts using my card that was saved on the TV.
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    • I only noticed when I checked my bank app and saw several small charges I didnt recognize at first.
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    • I asked her about it and she said she thought it was fine since they were "cheap" and I make more money than she does.
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    • That kinda annoyed me because its not about the price, its about asking first. She said she meant to tell me but forgot and also claimed she uses them for studying and relaxing after exams.
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    • I told her I still expect basic respect when it comes to my finances. She laughed a bit and said I was acting dramatic over like 25 bucks a month.
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    • So I logged into each service and canceled them all. I also removed my card info from the TV and changed my banking alerts to instant notifications.
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    • She got really upset and texted me saying I embarrassed her because she was watching shows with her friends and suddenly lost access.
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    • Now she told our parents and they said I could have just talked it out instead of canceling everything right
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    • I feel like I did talk to her and she brushed it off, but maybe I went too far by canceling all of them at once.
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    • noirivyn She didn't forget to tell you, she just assumed you wouldn't notice or care. You didn't go too far; you installed a basic consequence for theft. Her excuse about studying and being embarrassed in front of friends is just noise to distract from the fact she got caught. Tell your parents the conversation happened, she called you dramatic, and now she gets to learn that financial boundaries aren't a joke.
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    • RedneckDebutante NTJ Then I'm sure your parents won't mind picking up the tab for her. "Talking it out" doesn't translate to just giving her what she wants without consequences.
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    • thylaxy_01 Nah you're not wrong. It's not about the $25, it's about her just deciding your card was fair game. You literally did talk to her and she laughed it off. If she wants subscriptions, she can put her own card in like everyone else.
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    • mentat70 it's ironic when people claim you are being dramatic after they have stolen your money. She stole from you and rationalized it by telling herself that it is ok because you make more money than hef and it wasn't that much. So, in her world she's created, she's entitled to steal from anyone who has more than her. Nice.
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    • Limelnternational856 NTJ If she wants streaming services she can use her own money to pay for it.
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    • Huge-Personality-737 NTJ. What your sister did is called theft. Your sister knew what she was doing. Since your parents seem to think you should have talked this out then talk to them about how they raised a thief.
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    • Sgt_Blutwurst This is the same principle expressed by a rioter who said "Rich people got all this money and they ain't giving us any." It is a pure entitlement attitude. No, you are not the jerk.
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    • Jenk1972 NTJ. She didn't "forget" to tell you. She felt entitled to your money. If your parents feel so strongly about it, they can pay for her streaming services.
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