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    Couple orders weekday takeout, wife flips out when husband throws away frozen lemonade without asking: 'My things are mine'

    When things aren't going right in a relationship, the smallest incidents can turn into the biggest disasters.

    Some of the worst arguments happen not as a result of huge missteps, but because of the straw that broke the camel's back. For couples in serious relationships, it is the small stuff, good or bad, that really builds up over time and turns into something greater than the sum of its parts. Ideally, the ratio should be weighted far more in the direction of being nice than it is in the direction of being annoying.

    It is not always a bad thing for partners to argue. Sometimes, it is a necessary step towards progress in the relationship. Try as we might, most of us are not able to communicate all of our thoughts and feelings in a calm and measured way, not least if they involve certain resentments that have been building up for a period of time. Pretty much everyone who lives with their partner gets irritated by some of their behaviors now and then, and they can easily grow into something bigger if there are other underlying issues which have not been resolved. It is all a part of being with people.

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    • Food and drink can be an emotive topic in general, so it is no surprise that many couples argue about it at one point or another. 

      In this story, a woman had a big reaction to a seemingly small event that happened after she and her husband ordered takeout for dinner after a long day. Part of her order had been a frozen lemonade. It was one of her favorite drinks, and she usually left it to melt a little before she drank it.

      However, before she could touch it, her husband threw it in the garbage. He reasoned that he didn't want mess, and that he thought she had finished with it. She blew up, causing a huge argument. She wanted to know if she was in the wrong.

    • Am I overreacting after my husband threw away my lemonade?

      I'm still fuming over this and I feel absolutely crazy. I (26F) am married to my partner of 4 years (29M).
      via kickkatt
    • We had dinner tonight, which was takeout (long day) My order included a frozen lemonade treat which I really love.
      via kickkatt
    • I usually wait for it to melt because I love the texture, so I have it sit out for about an hour before I start to really drink it.
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    • In the meantime, I grab another drink from the fridge to go with my meal. I've done this numerous times since we have lived together.
      via kickkatt
    • After an hour I reached for my lemonade and it's gone. I'm confused as hell, because it was still 3/4 full and I definitely hadn't moved it from my nightstand.
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    • I call out to my husband and he says in an irritated tone that he "threw it away with the other trash".
      via kickkatt
    • I lose my absolute shit. It was like a demon came over me. I stomp out to the living room and yell at him, demanding he NEVER touch my food or belongings EVER again.
      via kickkatt
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    • This is stemming from an ongoing issue. He constantly eats MY leftovers, drinks MY drinks, and throws my shit away without asking.
      via kickkatt
    • He insists he does this to "help" and that I can be wasteful and messy. I think he's being entitled and I can't deal with it anymore.
      via kickkatt
    • We're married, sure, but MY things are fucking MINE!!! Something in me snapped and I go off on him like I never have before... over a frozen lemonade.
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    • I slam the trash can so hard I broke the lid, but I don't care. He's stunned, saying I'm WAY overreacting, and that it's not that deep, and he assumed I didn't want it since I had another beverage.
      via kickkatt
    • But it's too late. I told him he doesn't see the bigger picture and now we're in separate rooms, silently seething.
      via kickkatt
    • I think I may have gone overboard, but I genuinely believe my core feelings are valid.
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    • I just don't know where to Gn from here. In my own home, I need to police my food?
      via kickkatt
    • It's ridiculous. But maybe I'm too blind to see my own ridiculousness in this situation.
      via kickkatt
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      The image does not depict the actual subjects of the story. Subjects are models.

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    • ThisIsMyCircus40 I'm willing to wager everything in my checking account that there are other control issues in your relationship. Cause nobody reacts like that over lemonade. And I know you said it's an ongoing issue with food and drinks... Start throwing his shit away. When he's right in the middle of eating his dinner plate pick it up and throw it right in the trash.
      via ThisIsMyCircus40
    • kickkatt Original Poster's Reply You would be correct... at my breaking point. I've tried to change our relationship for the better, but nothing has worked. He wasn't like this when we were dating.
      via kickkatt
    • i_was_a_person_once Valid crashout NOR. It's not about this one lemonade. It's his pattern of behavior. And it demonstrates a basic lack of respect. Sounds like he also deflects his actions and insults you instead of taking accountability
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    • ForeignAdagio I threw a milk bottle (plastic) at an ex before after he left it in the centre of the kitchen floor about a foot away from the recycling bin. He gets to tell everyone I freaked out over a milk bottle. I know it wasn't about the milk bottle. NOR
      via ForeignAdagio
    • babaweird No, no, no, they have to figure out a way to communicate, deal with things. Escalating does not help.
      via babaweird
    • Certain Trash_2618 Get your own fridge. Then get your own place. Then move into that place. You're too young to waste your life like this.
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    • OptimismByFire > Maybe I'm blind in this situation. You are, but not in the way you think. You're blind to the fact that he already knows what he's doing is wrong. He likes doing it. He thinks he's right, and he's prepared to deal with the fallout, because your wants matter less than his. You matter less than him. He knows. He understands. HE. DOES. NOT. CARE.
      via OptimismByFire

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