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    Woman misses train at 11 PM, friend refuses to let her stay over because she has an exam the next day: 'I did not feel like it was my problem'

    A crisis will always show you who your real friends are.

    Plenty of friendships have fallen apart simply because they could not withstand how somebody reacted when a person they are supposed to care about went through a hard time. One of the most important parts of friendship and of community in general is the fact that you are able to give and receive favors and have a support network when you need it. 

    As with any relationship, we have to find out via trial and error who we can count on, and who we probably shouldn't have befriended in the first place. It's unfortunate that this is the case, but some people give great first impressions and then end up being the biggest disappointments. 

    Of course, there are examples of friends who act entitled and take more than they should, but that is not the same for everybody. For the most part, we should be willing to step up for those we care about when they are going through something, especially if it is an emergency. That is what friends do, or at least, they are supposed to. Sometimes these relationships are an inconvenience, but one that you should be glad of.

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    • In this story, a woman was visiting a friend in another city when she missed the last train home at night. Feeling she had no other option, she messaged another friend and asked if she would be able to stay with her until the trains were running again the next morning.

      This friend decided to refuse, as she had to wake up early the next day for an exam, and she and her roommates had made an agreement not to have guests during the week. The woman was upset by this, and ended up waiting for an early morning train. Her friend wondered if she had made the right decision.

    • Am I wrong for not letting my friend stay at my apartment after she missed her train?

      My friend and I live about an hr apart. She came to my city to visit another friend and planned to take the later train home Around 11 she texted me saying she missed her train and asked if she could stay at my place normally I would say yes but I had an early exam the next morning and had already gone to bed I also live with roommates and we agreed not to have overnight guests during the week which I think is a good rule to have I told her I was really sorry but I could not let her stay and sug
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    • She got upset and said I was being a bad friend and leaving her stranded I think her other friend is response?
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    • I felt bad but I also did not feel like it was my problem to fix her mistake.
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    • She ended up getting an early morning train and has been distant since. AITA? I would just like to add, she hadn't spoke to me 5 days prior to coming to my town.
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    • And didn't even tell me she was coming to the area I just got a call at 11pm at night when I was basically asleep
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    • Howdidigetsewcool I've said it before and I'll say it again... everyone wants community until community is an inconvenience
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    • TALKTOME0701 So she had to sit in the train station all night, And that's if it's a train station that stays open all night. I understand you guys said you wouldn't allow overnight guests, but I have to imagine there would be a difference between somebody coming to visit and somebody stuck in a different city with no place to stay I guess you're technically right, but you're absolutely not a good friend. Why wouldn't she be distant? You prioritized your sleep over her safety
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    • Hopeful-Material4123 Wowwwww....yeah, it is a good rule to have to not have overnight guests but emergencies exist. As long as your friend was super quiet and stayed in your room, it would not be an issue. Your roommate would just have to get over it. I would never leave my friend in the middle of the night alone and stranded. What is wrong with you? What if something happened to her and you could have just been inconvenienced for a night? I am happy she stayed safe and honestly, alive. That cou
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    • shiviam With friends like you..... Do you even like her? YTA
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    • vulpinevoyager I don't really think you are friends... I'd give the shirt off my back if my bro needed it. A real friend fights heaven and earth for a bro. You two are just humans that know each other.
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    • Cthulhus-Tailor You and I would no longer be friends following that phone call. "Not my problem to fix her mistake." Yeesh, with friends like you...
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    • pak9rabid This is something my dad would say. My dad doesn't have a lot of good friends for some reason...
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    • so_spoiled Once I got stranded at an airport, didn't make it to the connecting flight. My friend, who lives an hour away from the airport, came to pick me up, let me stay till the next day, and helped me with a new flight. Sorry but you're not a good friend.
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    • Such-Examination 1637 ehhh. You didn't even try checking with your roommate. Even if they said no, that would have meant you tried. I couldn't imagine being okay with leaving one of my girlfriends out in a town she doesn't live late at night by herself idk. Yes, it's not your fault she was there, but if she's really your friend, I don't see how you didn't care more. I'm going with YTA because of a lack of asking/effort. Not because you couldn't have her over cause of your roommate. (Which you do
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    • mariajazz I wish she will tell all of your combine friends about this incident and they will know what type of friend you are.... If I were you I will never leave my female friend coworker or class mate alone in any station at night.
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