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Business owner refuses to share the PIN to sensitive work documents with their employee: ‘I want things done legally and safely’

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  • a man standing in his office holding a secret folder of work documents
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  • "AITA for refusing to give a company my PIN and making an employee feel I don’t trust her?"

    I need to get this off my chest because I honestly can't relax. Context: I started a business with funding from an ESPA program in Greece.
  • To get the full funding, you have to submit 4 applications: one to get approved, one after opening, one after 6 months, and one after a year.
  • I'm currently on the 3rd stage. I hired a projects company to handle all the paperwork.
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  • I pay them well, but from the very beginning I set clear boundaries about managing my government digital account: * I want to see and approve all documents before submission.
  • * Anything serious, like official statements or authorizations that require a PIN, I handle myself. We had already argued before about the PIN, because I don't agree to give it unless it's absolutely necessary.
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  • At the 3rd stage, they needed papers from an office that's far from me. The office said I either had to appear in person or give digital authorization.
  • THe project company called me asking for my PIN because they had already prepared the authorization.
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  • I asked to see it first. She said she couldn't send it because it was "ready on the government site." I said, "But you can take a screenshot, right?" Eventually, she sent one.
  • I saw that the authorization required typing information manually. So I told her I'd do it myself.
  • I just needed her personal info because she would represent me, and that's exactly what the government site requires.
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  • a cell phone with a green button next to it indicating a PIN
  • She refused, saying "I can't give you that, it's my personal data," and said she felt offended that I didn't trust her.
  • At that point, I felt completely gaslighted and I got angry angry enough that she could definitely hear it in my voice.
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  • How can you ask for my most personal digital signature to act as me, but refuse to give your info when you're acting on my behalf?
  • I told her I just want things done legally and safely, and if needed, I'd go to the office myself.
  • We hung up. After a while, she called back and said she'd send me her info, but I had to delete it immediately.
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  • Fine. But spoiler alert: all that data are always included in the authorization document anyway, so I could see it regardless.
  • Honestly, I just wanted to handle my PIN myself. She was mad. I was mad. But I feel like I was only trying to protect myself and do things properly.
  • So AITA for acting strictly and beign "difficult" and make young employee fell I do not trust her?
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  • NTA your-mom04605 You are being perfectly reasonable. You are paying them for the service they provide. Their job is to provide the service within the boundaries you have established. I personally would not tolerate this from an employee and would terminate this relationship.
  • saveyboy NTA. They work for you. You set the rules.
  • NTA. False_Fig_6013 You hired them. You made the rules clear. You're simply protecting private data. The fact that they aren't saying how high when you say jump on this would be a big problem for me. I'd go to the owner of the projects company and have a real heart to heart about the professionalism of the staff.

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