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New homeowner refuses to let entitled parent "Linda" and her kids trespass so they can play in his yard: '[But] the previous owners always let us!'

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  • A group of children play in a field.
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  • "My neighbor told me I’m 'stunting her children’s development' because I won't let them use my backyard as a shortcut to the park."

    I bought my first house about six months ago. It has a nice, fenced-in backyard that happens to back up to a local wooded trail that leads to a popular park.
  • If you go around the block, it's a 10- minute walk. If you go through my yard, it's about 30 seconds.
  • Enter "Linda." Linda lives two houses down and has three kids (all under 10). A few weeks after I moved in, I caught Linda and her kids unlatching my side gate and walking through my yard.
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  • I went out and politely told her that I'd prefer they didn't do that, citing liability and the fact that I have a dog who isn't always fond of strangers in his space.
  • Linda's response? "Oh, the previous owners always let us! It's just easier for the kids." I told her that I'm not the previous owner and to please use the sidewalk.
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  • I thought that was the end of it, but yesterday I came home early and found her kids climbing over my fence.
  • Not even using the gate-climbing. I told them to get down and go home. Five minutes later, Linda is at my front door, absolutely livid.
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  • She didn't apologize. Instead, she screamed that I was being "un-neighborly" and "hostile toward children." She literally told me that by forcing them to walk the long way, I am "stunting their development" and "robbing them of outdoor time." She then demanded that I give her a copy of the key to my gate so she can "supervise" them properly while they use the shortcut.
  • I told her that if I see her or her kids in my yard again, I'm calling the police for trespassing and I'll be installing cameras.
  • She called me a "bitter, child-hating hermit" and stomped off. Now, a couple of other neighbors (who I think just don't want to deal with her) are telling me I'm being "too intense" and that "it's just a yard." They say I should just let them use it to keep the neighborhood "harmonious." AITA?
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  • I mean, I know this is Entitled People, but I'm genuinely shocked that someone thinks they have a right to my property because it's "more convenient."
  • A man in a white and blue crew neck t-shirt pulls his hair in frustration.
  • Pantokraterix She is exactly the kind of woman who will sue you if her children are hurt in your yard. Get a paper trail.
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  • edcantu9 Original Poster's Reply I can see this happening!
  • davisasian13 lol have them offer up their yard as access then
  • A group of children play in a field.

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