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Retail worker cuts off their friend, Vanessa, from using their 30% employee discount after they spend $2800 and threaten their job: ‘My manager actually pulled me aside’

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  • "My friend can't use my employee discount anymore after she abused it"

    I work at a popular retail store and employees get 30% discount. We're allowed to use it for friends/family occasionally. My friend "Vanessa" (both 27F) has asked to use it maybe 4-5 times over the past year which was fine.
  • Last month she asked to use it for "a few things." I said sure and gave her my code. She spent $800. I was shocked but whatever, she bought a lot of winter clothes.
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  • Two weeks later she asked again. I said didn't you just shop? She said "these are gifts." Fine. Another $600.
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  • Then last week she asked AGAIN. I said this is getting excessive. She said she'll "pay me back" for helping. I said its not about payment, I'm worried about my discount being flagged for misuse.
  • She promised it was the last time. I reluctantly agreed. She came to my store while I was working and filled TWO CARTS. Got to checkout and the total was $1,400. I said absolutely not, this is way too much.
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  • She made a scene saying I "promised" and now she's embarrassing in front of everyone. I told the cashier not to apply my discount. Vanessa left the store angry.
  • Now she's texting me saying I "humiliated her" and "broke my word." She told our friend group I'm being selfish with my discount when "it doesn't cost me anything."
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  • My manager actually pulled me aside and said my discount has been used unusually high lately. AITJ for cutting her off?
  • TL;DR: Friend kept using my employee discount, last time tried to spend $1,400, I refused, she says I embarrassed her and broke my promise to help.
  • DesignerSandwich8678 She is taking advantage of you and doesn't seem to care that you could get in trouble. Doesn't sound like much of a friend
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  • Firebird562 Is she selling the items for profit?
  • MidgetLoving Maxx NTJ. Your friend is almost certainly using your discount to resell items, which, in every company ive managed in, is a fireable offense.
  • Relative-Giraffe-977 No u're definitely not the jerk. she was literally about to get u fired over some sweaters. $1400 is insane and she's being a fake friend for even asking that much.
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  • PisFingerz42069 sounds like she's possibly selling the items to flip a profit. Cut her off since she's clearly not thinking about the possibilities on your end. Real friends don't jeopardize others. NTJ
  • Beneficial-Sort4795 Group text. "My manager pulled me aside and said my discount was used an unusually high amount. That's all Vanessa. Then she tried to use it for $1,400 and caused a scene at my job when I said no. This is officially abusing my discount and my friendship and she will no longer be allowed to use it. This isn't up for debate. I'm not losing my job or my discount trying to be nice." NTJ but rethink the friendship. It's likely Vanessa is reselling everything she's buying.
  • Mobile_Emu_8404 Two carts?? for a "few things"?? she's definitely reselling that stuff or she has a major shopping problem. either way, she's putting ur livelihood at risk. if she was a real friend, she'd be worried about u getting in trouble, not about her $1,400 bill.
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  • Ntj DumbBees2 Tell to get a job at ur store, problem solved. Btw she needs to grow up.
  • SaturnaliaSaturday NTJ; she's going to get you fired. She's not a friend.
  • Woodiewoods No you are not the asshole. Your friebd is using you and the exact thing you were worried about happening happened. Do not risk your job for someone who doesn't care what happens to you. And they might remove the discount for all employees due to this.

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