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Woman exhausts her hospitality then tells off her husband's entitled French friend after a week of being criticized for every little non-French thing: 'I wasn't going to keep bending over backwards'

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  • AITJ for telling my husbands friend she can cook for herself if shes going to complain about everything I make
  • Dissatisfied customers at a restaurant complaining about the food.
  • My husbands childhood friend flew in from France to stay with us for two weeks. Shes in her 60s and apparently hasnt traveled much in her life. I was excited to host her and show her around our city. It started going downhill almost immediately.
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  • We took her out to eat and tried to introduce her to different cuisines. Sushi. Thai. Mexican. She refused everything and insisted we go to French restaurants instead because nothing else compared. Fine whatever we went along with it.
  • But then she complained about every French place we took her to. The bread wasnt right. The sauce was too thick. The wine wasnt good enough. The cheese tasted off. Nothing was as good as back home. Three nights in a row of this.
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  • Then we went grocery shopping and she started critiquing everything in the store. Told me the produce looked sad. Laughed at the cheese selection. Literally stood in the bread aisle explaining to me why none of it was real bread.
  • Woman in France wearing a red beret.
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  • Yesterday I decided to cook dinner at home. Im South American and I love cooking food from my culture. I made a dish my family has been making for generations. She walked in and
  • immediately said the house smelled strange. Then she looked at the food and asked my husband if they could go get crepes instead. When she came back she told me I should learn to cook French food because my husband shouldnt have to eat such heavy meals all the time.
  • I told her she had been rude and dismissive the entire trip. I said if French food is the only thing she can tolerate she can go buy her own ingredients and cook it herself. I told her I wasnt going to keep bending over backwards for someone who insults everything I do.
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  • Expert Bumblebee_454 Imagine flying across the world just to complain that everything isnt exactly like home Imao why even leave
  • ItIsWhatIssss NTJ she had it coming. Your husband is a dick for taking her to eat crepes after you had cooked for her. He should've stood up for you and honoured your effort
  • No-Vacation6818 NTA at all, she sounds absolutely exhausting. The audacity to insult your family recipe and suggest your husband "shouldn't have to eat such heavy meals" in YOUR house is wild. You were way more patient than most people would've been - I would've snapped after the grocery store lecture about "real bread"
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  • NextSplit2683 Definitely NTJ. Your husband, on the other hand, Why did your husband not say anything to his childhood friend? You were very patient with her. I'm surprised it took so long for you to speak up. Good for you.
  • Admirable-Spell8725 Honestly good for you for finally saying something. Complaining about restaurants is annoying but insulting your home and your food is next level disrespect. If nothing outside of France is good enough for her then yeah, she can cook for herself. You're not her personal chef.

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