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Employee informs manager he has to miss work due to medical emergency, HR reframes this as a resignation: 'I never resigned!'

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  • "My manager told HR I resigned after a sudden medical emergency. I never resigned."

    About two weeks ago, I had a serious medical issue and ended up in the hospital. The first thing I did was call work, let them know what was happening, and told them I'd keep them updated. I even told them I would
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  • understand if my sudden absence caused any problems and if there were any consequences. On Monday, I was finally discharged from the hospital. I found a missed call
  • and a voicemail from HR telling me to call them ASAP. I called them, and they asked me what my plans were. I told them I just needed a day or two to get things sorted at home and then I'd be ready to come back. Their response?
  • 'We're not sure if your position is still available, we'll let you know. I honestly didn't know how to answer. Not 30 minutes passed and HR called me again. She told me that my manager had told her I was 'totally fine' with them letting me go and that's
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  • what they were going to do. So I thought to myself, okay, so they're firing me. It s but okay. But no. ' She then told me that they would be processing it as a resignation on my part.
  • I told her, more than once, that I am not resigning. I never said that. I repeated that I understand if they have to let me go because of my absence, but I am not submitting my resignation.
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  • She then tried to tell me that it couldn't be considered a termination because she wasn't 'involved' in that process. I replied, what do you mean? You're the HR person talking to me right now, what are you talking about?
  • I'm really upset and confused. My manager is blatantly lying and saying I resigned when I never did. It feels like. I'm being punished for having a health. crisis. Gotta love corporate compassion, you know.
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  • A man screams on the phone while sitting outside on stairs with his laptop open.
  • Top-Construction-535 Talk to an employment lawyer.
  • These-Inspection-230 Just ask for a copy of the signed resignation letter you submitted to the company.
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  • tipareth1978 Stand your ground, don't give in. They know they messed up and the risk they're taking. If you start using language around "punishing me by firing me for getting sick" they'll back off. Worst case you get a nice severance. But don't let them get by with their bs narrative
  • TheEvil Of TwoLessers Ask them to see the paper trail where you announced your resignation.
  • Funny_Condition9554 Try discussing with someone else in HR. Unforeseen medical should be covered by FMLA if you are in the US. Sounds like a case of he said/she said. The "consequences" you may have verbally agreed to seem unspecified and for all your manager knows, you were referring to work performance review or project assignment, not termination/resignation. They cannot MAKE you resign, though they could fire you, but on what grounds? Consider a lawyer if this escalates.
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  • Loud-Cheez Email the HR person and reiterate what you said in the call. Get it in writing that you have not and will not resign. Stick to the facts. Don't apologize or assign any blame to yourself. Use Al if you need help writing it. Professional, calm and firm. Keep a record of date & times of these calls. Save your emails and their responses. If they follow thru with firing you, this will be important for your unemployment claim. Also, learn from this. You shouldn't be ok with "consequences" f
  • SeaweedWeird7705 They are just trying to get out of paying unemployment. You should fight on this. Go ahead and file for unemployment now. If the employer disputes it, the unemployment department will schedule a hearing and you will win. Also, you should be able to get a free consultation with an employment law attorney regarding possible wrongful termination. Such laws vary by state.
  • itchierb worms They should be able to provide you with a copy of the email, text, or voicemail/recorded call of your resignation. Ya know... proof.
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  • Crafty_Durian_1004 As a former HR director I urge you to consult an attorney who is practicing employment law. If you are not protected by FMLA there could be an ADA issue. An employment lawyer can give you guidance and many offer free initial consultations.
  • Agreeable-Fun-9431 If you're in the US, there are protections for this. Definitely go to a lawyer

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