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'He deserves better': Man pleads his spouse to adopt a doggo, but after bringing him home, he realizes he's "not a dog person" and wants to give the poor pupper away

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    Muddy dog making a carpet dirty including 'I realized that I DO NOT like dogs'
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    Recently just rehome my old dog back with me after I had to give him up due to surgery. Long story short people that had him could no longer afford him so I pleaded with my spouse to bring him home to avoid the pound.
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    There was an initial shock of altering my schedule to walk him and take him out and i haven gotten over that but
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    I do not like the fur everywhere, i vacuum everyday multiple times a day. I sometimes get agitated although he is only doing what's in his nature. He follows my around like my shadow, when I try to walk him so he is tired all he wants to do is mark over and over just pee on everything. He licks the floor, other dogs butt and etc which absolutely disgusts me.
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    The cold weather is causing additional challenge in him. getting activity so he is extra busy causing mischief in the apartment
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    Basically I realize that although I love the lil fella I DO NOT like dogs( i think people who love dogs should have dogs)
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    A A is I were to rehome him? I feel like he deserves to be with someone who not only love him but loves dogs as well. Everyone keeps telling me to stick with it and it will get better but i don't agree
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    Wankyudo YTA. That's a title you need to accept in this situation because you pushed for the dog, got the dog, and now you don't want the dog. Every rehome does damage to a dog's psyche. They aren't something that you can just...pick up and then change your mind. It's inconsiderate, and it's damaging.
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    You still should rehome him because it'll be even more damaging having an owner who clearly is incapable of loving him; and don't ever arbitrarily get a pet just because.
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    LillithVee As someone who isn't a dog person myself, I don't think you're an asshole, but you do have the responsibility to do your best to find a truly loving home where this dog can have someone who's happy to take good care of it.
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    Keeping the dog with you will likely lead to exhaustion and frustration, and in the long run that won't be good for anyone, the dog included. It deserves better, so keep taking care of it for now and, in the meantime, try to find a loving family for it.
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    Dog resting on blanket
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    toospicy4thepepper3 YTA always do your research before allowing any animal into your life. Especially when you pleaded with your spouse to let them into your home.
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    But you should try local facebook groups to see if anyone wants him or start asking around work if anyone else would like to home the pupper. Otherwise look into no-☑I shelters as a last resort in your area
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    Relatents Info: Long story short people that had him could no longer afford him so I pleaded with my spouse to bring him home to avoid the pound.
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    Are you saying that they loved him and he loved them? That they really wanted to keep him if only they had the resources to do so?
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    If so, why not let them adopt him and you pay "child support"? That way he gets to be where he is loved by people who love him. Perhaps you could visit sometimes and get updates about him.
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    rnoderator_rernoved YTA because you already rehomed him once and should've helped rehome him somewhere for longevity instead of being a pushover. And you should still rehome him now because he deserves better.
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    whitetopblueshorts Nta, best thing you could do for him is find him a good home.
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    OkTadpole2920 Maybe, but at least you are doing the essentials. Dogs enjoy walks because they get to smell everything and leave their own scent for other animals, that is actually the most part of the walk for them. So I'm afraid that the slow walk is also essential.
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    Almostthere09 Although Key Stone thinks I'm a troll. I do appreciate the comments with good suggestions on a path forward. If i could put pics in the comment i would but also i do not care about negative comments. I'm real enough to acknowledge that the dog deserves more and that my home isn't the most beneficial for him.

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