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‘I just “stole” a kitten’: Caring neighbor rescues 3-month-old kitten left out in the cold, only to be accused by the feline's foster family of crossing a line

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    Cat left outside by neighbor for supposedly only one night and I took the cat

    close up photography of a tortoiseshell kitten including 'I took the kitten into my apartment, which the neighbor knew I did'
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    Hi, I wanted to know if I was in the wrong. A couple of days ago, around Sunday night, I caught my neighbor outside feeding a 3 month old kitten they had inside their house they said they were fostering.
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    I asked them what they were doing and they said that this kitten got their other cat sick despite having them together for 2 months indoors with no problems.
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    They said they tried to take the kitten to the pound, but the pound was full and they tried the humane society, but the HS was full and claimed the kitten has an upper respiratory infection (the kitten doesn't and is not sickly at all).
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    The pound told them to put the kitty outside and the neighbor said that if the kitten was still around tomorrow, they would keep the kitten.
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    It was a bit warm out that day, but the temperature was going to plummet and start raining that night.
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    So I took the kitten into my apartment, which the neighbor knew I did. Even told them I had the next day off and that I didn't have a phone yet since I broke my other one.
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    young girl holding a tabby kitten in her arms
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    Next day, I waited to see if the neighbor would come by for the kitten. They never did.
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    I will admit I could have done more to communicate with them like leave a note or knock on their door.
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    But the same can be said for them. Heard nothing from them for an entire week.
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    So I bought cat food, cat litter, cat pan, and even a pink collar for the kitten.
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    It was yesterday morning when the neighbor finally knocked on our door. They asked if we had the cat and, honestly, I could not remember a majority of that conversation since they woke me up from a deep sleep.
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    I do remember that I told them we (my parent and I) may keep the kitty and the neighbor seemed happy about that since they have been trying to find a home for it.
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    kitten perched on wood pile outside
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    Heck, they even asked the week before if we wanted the kitty (we weren't ready yet and were honestly thinking of getting an older kitty, like 6 months or older).
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    But later I received a text message from them in a rather rude way about how they felt my parent and I judged them as a bad cat parent, how they asked for help (they didn't ask for help with anything), and how we can keep the cat since we "took" her from them (no, you were going to leave the poor indoor kitten outside when it was going to get cold and rainy).
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    How they won't bother us anymore (they barely talked to us). I was just shocked, sad, and a bit mad since we were on good terms before.
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    But I just wanted to know if I was in the wrong for not giving the kitty back.
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    (Extra notes: the neighbor told us three times they were just fostering the kitty, never took the kitty to a vet nor told the apartment complex they had a second cat in their apartment, and would hold the kitten in one hand as she thrashed around in their hand and let out loud meows)
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    pinkflakes12 Keep the cat. A real owner never risks them like this
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    DoubleoSavant Nope. I have a neighbor who is basically breeding more strays. They get kittens for their kids, leave them outside, don't desex them, more kittens, cats and kittens go missing (presumably dead). I've taken three so far, and plan to take more. Don't give a rats rear end what they think.
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    Penelope742 Please keep the cat
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    Alohafarms I foster. They are not fosters. You are screened well before you are allowed to foster and you have to have quite a bit of knowledge to take on the babies and the sick ones. I hospice foster as well. I could never just set an animal outside, much less one that is sick. That's abuse.
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    You are saving this baby. No need to feel guilty at all. Keep it and if you think you cannot manage it's care find a no kill shelter in your area. Thank you for saving this baby.
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    karinchup Keep the kitten. Help it. They clearly didn't want it and no "Foster" doesn't vet or puts it out.
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    OhLovelyPersephone As someone who has fostered for both private and city organizations, if the cat was sick, the rescue would have gotten it taken care of. Full.stop!
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    This is just a person who probably got a cat and now the cat is old enough that it should be giving its first round of veterinary stuff or possibly is being a kitten and clawing at stuff, they decided to toss it outside, because people are assholes.
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    Congratulations on your new kitten.Get them to the vet asap and get them chipped with your name.
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    Fast_Ad7292 Keep the kitten, get her microchipped, and register the microchip to you in case your neighbor decides to try to take legal action to get the kitten back. Keep all your receipts for supplies, vet visits, etc, so you have a paper trail
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    Setsailshipwreck I just "stole" a kitten from my neighbor in a similar situation. Was younger (4-6weeks) and would have 100% died if it was left out. I rehomed it to some very nice people and have zero regrets. Anyone who leaves a cat, especially a kitten out like that clearly doesn't want that cat. My neighbors didn't even look for mine. Sounds like your neighbors just felt guilty, which they should. Don't sweat it, keep the cat

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