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Manager fires 27-year-old in company restructure, gets upset when he refuses to train 23-year-old replacement paid $15k less: 'I'm standing up for myself'

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  • a man wearing a coat and glasses walks away from an office building, holding a cardboard box full of files and belongings
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  • Am I wrong for refusing to train my replacement after they fired me?

    So I (27M) have been working at this marketing company for 3 years. I've gotten great reviews, never been written up, always meet my deadlines. Last week my boss calls me into her office and says they're "restructuring" and my position is being eliminated. I have 3 weeks left.
  • Then she hits me with this: they want me to train my replacement. A girl named Sophie who's 23 and fresh out of college. They're paying her $15k LESS than what I make, which is obviously why they're doing this.
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  • I said I'm not comfortable training someone to do my job when you just fired me. My boss said its "part of my job responsibilities during the transition period" and that it would be "unprofessional" not to help.
  • I straight up said no. I told her I'll finish my current projects and document my processes but I'm not doing hands-on training. She said that's "disappointing" and that she "expected more from me."
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  • Some of my coworkers are saying I should just do it because its only 3 weeks and I don't want to burn bridges. But like, they're literally replacing me with someone cheaper. Why should I make that easier for them?? My girlfriend thinks I'm being petty. I think I'm standing up for myself. AITJ? TL;DR: Got fired and company wants me to train my cheaper replacement. I refused and now people say I'm being unprofessional and petty.
  • a man wearing a coat and glasses stands outside an office building, looking into the cardboard box of belongings he is holding
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  • wengelite Since your position is being eliminated there is no training necessary.
  • OP WinInteresting9368 Yeah, that's what I think too. Also, I would have been fine with it if I was fired because of my incompetence. But i am not. Am I wrong?
  • Unfair_Language5762 Dont train your replacement unless you're being promoted. Your boss said your job is being eliminated which means no one should be trained to replace you. Also if your boss truly wanted you to train this 23 year old, you should be demanding a pay raise & 2 coworkers (witnesses) to be present during said training Your coworkers are basic bitches who probably have their noses up the bosses ass.
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  • OP WinInteresting9368 That makes sense. Thank you for all your insights. I guess I will be the petty king and I will not do as they say. It hurts me to be repalced because they need to cut budget
  • Adelucas NTA. They fired you, you didn't quit. Do what you need to do to finish what needs finishing, and they can train the new hire to their standards.
  • NTJ. Scared Treacle_7805 It's a common practice but that doesn't make it right. If more people stood up like you are, this would happen less. They're literally underpaying a vulnerable young adult, while simultaneously throwing you to the sharks. They can (dis) respectfully kiss your ass.
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  • Usual-Owl9395 "I expected not to be fired just so you can pay somebody $15 grand less. So no."
  • best_muffins98 Your job is eliminated and you are being laid off. No person is replacing you, the job is gone. If they say otherwise it is wrongful dismissal! Just finish your projects and leave.
  • pwolf 1771 "Burn bridges" is such a false threat for rubes. This will in no way impact your ability to find a new job. Stick to your guns the new hire can figure it out the same way you did.
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  • Adventurous-Bar520 Your position is being made redundant so there is no reason to train anyone to do it. No it is not part of your responsibilities, they are trying to guilt you into it being one of your duties.
  • earthtobobby This happened to me and it's all semantics. The position being eliminated is the one the OP holds. The new hire will have a differently titled position but doing the same work.
  • Boo-Bo097 I got passed over for a promotion (to a job I was already doing) then was expected to train the person they promoted instead. I refused and was told I had a bad attitude and wasn't a team player. Eff that noise, I wasn't getting paid to train and far as I was concerned, the other person's incompetence wasn't my problem.

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