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Stepmom cuts stepdaughters off after she has a child of her own with their dad, dad follows his wife's lead and removes his daughters from his will: ‘His other child gets all his money’

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    AITA for not liking my stepmom after she had a child with my dad and cut me off

    , throwaway account, My sister and I were raised by our single father since our parents got divorced in approx 2007.
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    We don't have a close relationship with our mother, and our father had sole custody of us growing up.
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    My sister is in college (5+ hrs away). I live with my boyfriend and have since 2020.
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    My dad married my stepmom years ago and my sister and I have been struggling with our relationship with her.
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    My sister and I felt like she took control of all events surrounding our dad, like his birthday.
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    She cancelled plans last minute with my sister or told my sister that she wasnt here to be a mom to us, that she didnt marry us but our dad and that she is only a trusted adult to us, but if my dad was involved she came with to show support.
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    Another example of why I got frustrated was because my dad told his wife one thing and he told us another.
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    I also felt like she never told my dad he was in wrong in a situation involving my sister and I.
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    They live together now at her house. My sister lived there too when not at school and she didnt tell me back then that she felt excluded from plans very often.
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    I did like her and she was a very nice person, but I just struggled to find a connection with her.
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    I know things were different before she was here and it almost feels like she was taking my sister and I's role as his go to people.
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    We brought all this up to her and she listened but told us that she was happy we finally showed her who we really were, she and my dad have a daughter together now who is a year old old now, after the convo we had with our stepmom she told us that she was cutting us off (her daughter had just been born) and that our dad could keep a relationship with us if he wanted to but that she was stepping back, we have NEVER ONCE met our sister.
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    our dad asked us why we didnt talk to him about this instead of "attacking" his wife and cut us off too, he kicked my sister out, changed his will to only give his other child all of his money.
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    My dad and step mom are also VERY wealthy, i'm sure all their money is going to their shared child like I stated.
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    My dad is planning on getting retired in a couple of years and he's very young.
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    Couple Signing Last Will and Testament Indoors
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    MelG146 Wait him out. Contest the Will.
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    OP Soft-Supermarket-499 I cant, he changed it and put it in his trust.
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    Astyryx There's probably nothing you can do. But just in case, you would do well to meet with s lawyer. If you have grandparents, make sure they and all your extended family have the full story.
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    OP Soft-Supermarket-499 our extended family knows everything, they have contact with my half sister
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    Kristrigi Depending on where you live, you and your sister could contest the will after he's dad, as his children you two could get money from his estate after he passes even if nothing in the will is left to you
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    OP Soft-Supermarket-499 he has a trust, and told us that he's leaving us a small amount so that we cant contest it, exactly 50 is what he said.
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    Kristrigi It's possible to still contest for undue influence-but I'm sorry your "dad" is ad khead
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    OP Soft-Supermarket-499 Can we do that? his first daughter is apart of his will (the child he had before my sister and I) how would we prove that he was under influence when hes perfectly healthy and able to think for himself? From what i know he would have to be really old and show signs of declining health.
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    Vestiel Is the daughter even your fathers? xD SM sounds like classic gold digger. She got pregnant to take everything from you guys.
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    OP Soft-Supermarket-499 she is, my sm is wealthy too.
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    Kristrigi Im not a lawyer, the influence is your Step-mother. You just have to prove she manipulated him into changing it. I only know this from one of my friends going through a similar situation I would recommend discussing it with a lawyer
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    OP Soft-Supermarket-499 i dont think SHE manipulated him into, he knew exactly what he was doing, there would be no reason for her to do it to be honest, she makes more money than my dad, and is more well off than him, all her money is going to their share child, i doubt she would care if we got our dads money, hence why she told our dad to keep what ever relationship he wanted with us. It s ks but our grandparents said the same thing, that if he truly wanted us to be apart of his trust he would
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    Sea-Ad9057 Just remember if you have kids you can also exclude them it works both ways you should ask him if he wants to give up any part in future grandchildrens lives
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    OP Soft-Supermarket-499 My dad already has a grandchild,, he had a child with another woman before meeting our mother, she has no contact with us because she hates that our dad had other children.
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    wasmachmada Dude needs to stop having children like it's a sticker album he needs to complete.
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    OP Soft-Supermarket-499 He has 4 kids now lol

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