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    Man goes on a solo trip to hike the Appalachian Trail, but is forced to cut the trip short, his wife refuses to do the same with her vacation: ‘He expects me to come home early too’

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    Bar Mor Hazut • Senior Editor
    Oct 7, 2025 3:00 PM EDT

    Even if you have the perfect relationship with your significant other, everyone needs alone time. You can't spend every hour of every day with the same person, no matter how much you love them.

    So you don't need to feel bad for being happy if your partner tells you they are going away on a vacation without you; it is okay to be excited about the prospect of spending some time apart. Especially if you already live with your partner's parents, like the wife in the story below. Because in that case, no one would be surprised if you did anything to get time away from them.

    When her husband left on a 4-day trip to hike the Appalachian Trail with his son, brother, and nephews, this wife took advantage of that time to plan a vacation of her own. One that does not include her overbearing in-laws, whom she has been living with.

    However, when the husband's vacation was cut short, he returned home earlier than expected and demanded that his wife do the same. When she refused and insisted on remaining where she was until the 4 days were up, a family dispute ensued.

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      WIBTA if I didn't cut my vacation short even though my husband cut his vacation short?

      My husband went on a 4-day trip to hike the Appalachian Trail with his son, brother, and nephews
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      I couldn't go because I have to work so I decided to stay with a friend/coworker of mine and have a Harry Potter movie marathon.
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      For some context, my husband and I (both 45) got married a year ago and have since been living with his parents.
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      Where we live, it's a high of about 90° this time of year. My job requires | be outside in the heat all day and I work long hours.
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      His folks keep the thermostat at 77°. I thought I'd get used to the house temp but I'm tired of always being hot.
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      Last week his mom agreed to lower the temp to 76° but I crave the cool after being in the relentless heat all day.
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      The last couple days staying with my friend has been heaven. She has her theromtat set at a cool 70°.
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      My husband called yesterday and told me he couldn't finish the hike and was stopping at the halfway point and coming home a day early.
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      He expects me to come home early too but I just want one more cool night's sleep and to finish the Harry Potter series with my friend, but my husband made it clear he would be very angry with me if i don't go home tomorrow.
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      So, WIBTA for staying at my friend's house as long I initially planned even if it off the my husband?
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      99TigerStripes Info: why in the world at age 45 are you living with his parents? Nothing that you have described in this post sounds good in any way as your husband sounds like a controlling AH. NTA, but I'd re- evaluate my life choices.
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      OP Tifferized His parents need the help and we pay rent.
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      Adventurous-Bee4823 I'm so baffled. I realize I will get downvoted to infinity, but you're both forty five years old and live with his parents? How does this even happen? I mean is he taking care of his parents because of old age? Health issues? I'm just really confused.
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      OP Tifferized We take care of his parents and we pay rent.
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      Mindless_Giraffe4559 NTA. Tell him to do something else for another day, but you are staying put. Where do spouses get off thinking that because they are married they can demand things? He can certainly ask nicely but you can certainly respond with a nice NO. Is it not a possibility to get at least a window A/C for your bedroom so you have some respite from the heat?
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      OP Tifferized That's a good idea.
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      only_child_by_choice NAH in regards to them wanting to have the house at 77°. And you wanting to have it be like 70°. My mom is always cold, nothing you can do will convince her that it is warm. But, your husband sounds very controlling. You should be able to spend time with friends, have a vacation away from your husband, be able to be comfortable. My girlfriend likes the heat, so she has tons of blankets on her side of the bed. I like it really cool, so I have a fan on my side table that blows
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      OP Tifferized I sleep with no blankets and always have a fan on me. I'm a hot sleeper. We pay rent and take care of his folks. We are saving to buy some property for a homestead retirement.
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      Fast-Chipmunk-1558 You're in perimenopause, get AC because it will get worse. Better yet move out !
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      OP Tifferized I didn't want to mention that part but I am getting heat flashes
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      Brooklyn_Bunny NTA. But is there a reason the two of you who are almost 50 are living with his parents if the thermostat is an issue? Are you not able to afford your own place together?
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      OP Tifferized Jesus Bunny. You could have just said 45! No need to go straight to almost 50! We are helping his parents. They're almost 80 (70 and 72). Before my folks d dl lived with them for a couple years to help
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      tahcamen I inferred the son was grown.
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      OP Tifferized His son is 13, his oldest is 27. Could have gone either way really. I cook for the younger kids and take them places but they are pretty self sufficient otherwise.
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      ahberryman78 Why do you not have a window or freestanding air conditioner unit? Why live like that if you don't have to? You're a grown adult.
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      OP Tifferized I thought if enough time passed if get used to the heat. I was wrong. I'll suggest a window unit so I can at least sleep well but I use the whole house and I'm hot while I'm cooking, hot while I'm gaming, hot while I'm doing laundry or even watching TV.
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      EmploymentLanky9544 >but my husband made it clear he would be very angry with me if i don't go home tomorrow. So.. he threatened you. Ok. This is where you extend your time with your friend, and watch another series. Like, The Good Wife. Even binging that will take 2 months. NTA, and please reconsider your relationship. You don't threaten the people you love.
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