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    ‘I told her firmly no, the pool is my property and I get to set rules’: New homeowner refuses to let her cousin’s 2-year-old unlimited pool access because the toddler “deserves a break”

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    Etai Eshet • Editor
    Oct 10, 2025 5:00 PM EDT

    Getting a pool is supposed to feel like finally making it, but when a cousin arrives and throws her toddler into the mix like you owe her free daycare and a weekend off. The whole backyard vibe flips when she starts talking about needing a break. Toddlers might need juice boxes and a nap every two hours. They do not need a break. Letting a two-year-old loose in a brand new pool is a recipe for chaos and maybe a floating diaper if things go sideways.

    The host shuts it down, and suddenly, everyone is whispering about generosity while the cousin sulks and makes it awkward for the rest of the family. Pool rules get twisted into selfishness, and the next thing you know, your phone is blowing up with passive-aggressive messages about family and sharing. It is wild how quick people are to sign up your house as the play zone when they spot a bit of shiny new tile and water.

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    • AITA for telling my cousin her toddler can’t play in my brand new pool because she “deserves a break”?

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    • I just bought a house with a small pool in the backyard. I've been saving for years and finally have a little oasis where I can relax after work.
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    • I invited my family over for a weekend hangout. My cousin showed up with her 2-year-old and immediately started hinting that I should let the kid play in the pool.
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    • I politely said no, explaining that I didn't want a toddler in my pool without supervision and that it was still brand new.
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    • She flipped out and said I was being selfish, arguing that she deserves a break and her kid deserves to have fun.
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    • Then she went on about how every other relative lets their kids play in their pools and that I was ruining family time.
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    • I told her firmly no, the pool is my property and I get to set rules.
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    • She ended up sulking in the corner, refusing to talk to anyone, and even hinted she might leave early.
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    • Other relatives seemed uncomfortable and some subtly sided with her. I honestly feel completely justified my pool, my rules but now I'm starting to get texts from other family members asking why I can't be more generous.
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    • mariehotwife84 NTA. She thinks "deserving a break" means she gets free access to other people's property. Nope.
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    • OP _dahliadesire_ Exactly. I even offered some time later when I can supervise but apparently that's not good enough.
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    • snazzy_soul NTA- What's wrong with her? How would she be taking a "break" if her 2 year old was in the pool??
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    • Tuttiefrukt You could be liable if something happened. If she wants her kid to play in a pool there are plenty of public pools to go to. The entitlement is real.00
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    • Enough-Parking164 To leave her 2 year old UNSUPERVISED in a pool?
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    • John3791 , is your cousin Casey Anthony?
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    • Egg McMuffn Let her leave early. If other relatives text you about it, tell them to stay in their lane because this isn't their concern (unless they have a pool in which case you can suggest they invite her over). And if she brings it up again, tell her that since other relatives let kids play in their pools, then she can go visit one of them instead. Problem solved!
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    • Fuzzy_Passion671 She would let her TODDLER play in the pool unsupervised???? Says more about her than you tbh
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    • CanAhJustSay Let me clarify - if she doesn't get her own spoiled way then she removes an unsupervised toddler from your property? Sounds like a win! NTA. Pools are deadly. Toddlers are curious. It's a bad mix and children di every year from momentary lapses in concentration.
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    • brownbird8888 Stick to your guns. You also don't need to be stuck with baby sitting duties all the time. Besides, if anything happens to the toddler in the pool, as homeowner you would be liable.
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    • Mistyam And no parent should be "taking a break" while their child is in a pool. If anything, they need to be more attentive.
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    • Skip the guilt. Pools stay nice when the rules hold and nobody ends the day fishing action figures from the filter. Toddlers do not have union contracts. They will survive a grownup afternoon and the only thing anyone deserves is to chill without lifeguard duty sneaking up when least expected. If that makes the generosity police unhappy there is always next weekend for them to find another pool to invade.

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