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    Nine nannies ban woman from park playgroup for slacking off, she fires back by filing complaints to bosses at their jobs: 'She’s making things difficult'

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    Isabella Penn
    Oct 3, 2025 8:00 PM EDT

    Playgroups are supposed to be about goldfish crackers, bubbles, and a little sanity for the adults, not high-school-level drama. But one nanny found herself in the middle of a messy dispute after she and others decided to kick out a member who never pulled her weight.

    The group had a simple system with nine nannies that rotated responsibilities. Once a month, you bring snacks, drinks, and an activity. It could be something as easy as fruit and Cheerios, plus chalk, bubbles, or water balloons. But Alexandra, a newer nanny, showed up her first month with one tiny pack of dollar-store chalk for twenty kids and nothing else. Another time, she claimed she was sick but arrived anyway after someone else had already covered her turn. Another month, she didn't show at all.

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    • Eventually, the group agreed she couldn’t join anymore. But that decision backfired. Alexandra started filing complaints and dragged their day jobs into the mix.

      So now the group is left wondering if enforcing the rules was worth the trouble, or if in playgroups, like parenting, you sometimes just put up with the chaos for the sake of peace.

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    • "AITA for kicking a nanny out of playgroup?"

      I'm a nanny to 3 kids, 22 mo f, 3m, 3f. A few other nannies and I have an informal play group at the park.
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    • The way playgroup works is that we meet on Tuesdays and Thursdays. There's 9 nannies in the group and everyone is responsible for 1 day per month on a rotating basis.
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    • When it's your week, you bring snacks, drinks, and some type of toy or activity. Snacks are usually something like Cheerios and bananas with a capri sun.
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    • Activities vary, one girl brings a huge bubble set, another person has a bucket of sand toys, on hot days there's a lot of water guns and water balloons, we do chalk a lot, sometimes it's some kind of nature art, we've even done bug hunting and collecting.
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    • The kids love it and it's great to only find activities once a month. There's a nanny, Alexandra, with 1 child, 4m.
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    • She joined a few months ago and on her first month, she showed up with a dollar store pack of chalk for 20 kids, no snack, and no drink.
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    • She said she forgot to tell her boss it was their turn to bring an activity so she had to pick something up on the way.
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    • Luckily, another nanny was already prepared for her turn the following Thursday so she covered for Alexandra.
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    • The next month she was "sick" and needed someone to cover her day. I agreed to do it, then she showed up saying she was feeling better.
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    • The following month she never showed up. I talked to the other nannies and we agreed that Alexandra was no longer allowed to join the group because she clearly doesn't want to do her part in the group.
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    • I have another job working for the city. I teach infant and toddler music and dance classes and run a parent and me class at the city run preschools.
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    • After kicking Alexandra out of the group, my boss started getting complainants that I'm discriminating against families based on race and income.
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    • The other nanny that runs the group with me is also getting complainants to her boss.
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    • She came to the group last week and we had to tell her and the kid that they weren't able to join us.
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    • Now the group is wondering if we shouldn't have kicked Alexandra out because now she's making things difficult.
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    • IAmLee2022 NTA, but it sounds like you're dealing with Marry Poppins' evil twin.
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    • YesterdaySimilar2069 This is a super messed up situation as the nanny could cause you serious professional consequences.
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    • Have you discussed that aspect of the situation with your boss? Maybe the other nanny can back you up with what you suspect is happening, as well as, you for her?
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    • For future, social contracts like this are tricky. She's clearly blaming you for being ejected from the group. You and your friend took on the leadership roles, which means you're taking on risk for very little gain. Professionally speaking I'd recommend either stepping back or having set "contract" for the group so you can point to it in the future with issues like this.
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    • For this current issue it's really about supporting each other and covering your own butts professionally. Let your boss know your suspicions and ask about how you can ensure this won't affect your career.
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    • Keep your heads down around the nutty nanny. Her behavior is kind of proving the point of why you booted her. You're best served by doing whatever you can to avoid her without it causing a significant stir.
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