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AITA for telling my family that if they want to decide stuff in my wedding they have to pay for it?
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The whole thing turns into a reality show when you push back, sudden silence, then cries of betrayal, missed calls, relatives inventing new reasons why your wedding is an existential crisis for the family. They want a fairytale, you want to keep your savings and actually enjoy the party.
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At the end of the day, it’s your call, your budget, and your happiness on the line. Nobody owes their second cousin’s vision board an apology, and if grandma wants a big church wedding, she can write the checks or enjoy the show from her favorite chair. The snacks will be better and you get your honeymoon, all without burning through a house deposit for the sake of family optics.
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