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'She thinks it's not nearly enough': Student pawrent offers 50 euros for five days of simple cat care, but the 15-year-old who volunteered now demands more

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    'I know at least one or two people who would do it for free’
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    I (23F) will be going away for 5 days in a few weeks, I have a cat. I hang out quite often at my friends place, so I know her little sister (15) decently well. When she heard I was going away she asked what I was going to do with my cat. I told her I'll ask around to find someone to take care of him, and she asked if she could. I agreed.
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    She lives close by, a 10 minute walk or a few minutes by bike. I told her she can hang out at my place if she wants to get away from her parents (if she keeps it clean, of course), she can have whatever snacks or drinks I have (besides alcohol or anything I'll put away, like gifts), and I'll pay
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    her 50 euros. I felt like this is fair, it's 10 euros a day for less than 10 minutes of work (just scooping the litterbox and giving the cat food and water). I'm a student so I don't have a big budget, plus she offered to do it. But she thinks it's not nearly enough, her mom agreed, my friend and her dad agree that it's fine.
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    It's not a huge fight or anything, but she has been annoyed and texts me that it's unfair. I told her she doesn't have to do it and I can ask someone else, but she didn't like that either because I already told her she could do it. AITA?
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    TLDR: promised my friends sister she could catsit, offered to pay her 10 euros a day, she's upset that it's not enough. EDITED INFO: Minimum wage for 15 year olds is 4.30 euros per hour here, or 15 euros for adults. So hiring a professional would be more expensive, but I wouldn't, since I know at least one or two people who would do it for free.
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    Hiadro NTA. You gave a price, she doesn't have to accept. Even if it is too low, that doesn't make it unfair in any way - unless she's physically coerced into catsitting anyway.
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    Leyne-Ayann NAH. Cat hotel is 12 euros per day around here so 10 euros for an acquaintance seems absolutely fine to me. She is allowed to ask for more and you're allowed to budget. Also, where is the obligatory cat pic?
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    Gareth 79 NTA. Here in the UK I pay a commercial cat-sitter £15/day for a 30 minute visit, so your pricing seems. fair.
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    eventhoughitsnotr... NTA You're not paying her by the hour to sit and watch the cat like a small cat. You're paying her to stop by once a day and make sure the cat is fed and to scoop the litter box. 50 Euro for a week is plenty. If she DECIDES to stay longer and play with the
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    cat, then good on her. But there's no requirement for her to do anything but the bare minimum. Plus she asked about the job, she can't ask what a job pays and be upset that it pays less than she wants, she can find another job to go do.
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    WholeAcademic97... NTA, it's a fair price. I know people who have done the exact same for less money, including myself. Sometimes people have family members or friends do this kind of thing for free. If they carry on, causing a headache about the pay, just state you will find someone else then.
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    DesignAncient5549 NTA. She's 15 and she'll have to learn that things won't always go her way. $50 is generous for cleaning up after a cat once a day plus getting space to hangout away from home.
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    EdithVinger NTA - this is totally reasonable. If she feels she's being underpaid for daily work, drop the visits to every other day but keep your 50 euro price point. This effectively raises her rate without affecting your budget. You're NTA at all, here.
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    MissFabulina She is saying - I don't like the offered wage and then also saying - but you told me I could do it. Wha?!?!
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    NTA - but miss 15-year old who thinks she rules the world needs to wake up. Life is unfair. But also - she does NOT have to accept your offer...then she doesn't have to deal with your "unfairness".
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    If she volunteered to do it - I would think that she wasn't expecting to get paid at all. And you never agreed on the wage wage - so her, you told me I could do it, is moot. She never agreed to the wage that was offered. If she doesn't like the wage, she shouldn't accept the job.
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    dillydaddlerr NTA. Honestly if she's this miffed about being "underpaid" I would just find someone else. Especially if she's going to be at your place unsupervised. If she pushes back just let her know you don't have the budget to pay more.
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    Also interesting that a 15yo (and her mother) valued her time so highly...like does she have an actual job that she's comparing this "salary" to? What pay does she think is fair?
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    wesmorgan1 10 euros/day + food/drink, and she's in walking distance? Your offer is more than fair. NTA.
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    queenofthequeens NTA. It's a decent amount of money for very little work, and she ASKED for the job. She's not watching a child, she's cleaning the litter box and maybe playing with the cat for a bit. You can always go to someone else.
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    Imnotawerewolf NTA you weren't even planning on paying for this service, since you have friends who will do it for free. So it's ridiculous that she asked you to do do this, and getting more than she's giving, and still wants more money from you. It's a no thank you, from me.

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