Bride's sister refuses to give up her vacation days to do "unpaid maid of honor duties" before the wedding, bride accuses her of choosing a trip over family: 'I love my sister, but I also love not burning myself out.'

Vacations are sacred. They're life's little reward for all the late nights, early mornings, and endless grind that makes up modern life. For many, vacation days aren't just a chance to escape the day-to-day; they're also an opportunity to recharge, connect with friends, and experience something out of the ordinary. So, when one woman finally got approved for a full week off of work, she booked a getaway with her friend. 

However, now she finds herself caught between this well-deserved trip and family obligations. Her sister is now asking that she give up all of her vacation days in order to help with the wedding prep. She wants her folding programs, running errands, and keeping her calm before the big day – all for free, mind you! While our narrator was more than happy to be present at the rehearsal dinner and the weddings istself, she's not to keen on being forced into the role of a full-time wedding assistant. 

I'm in the middle of wedding planning, so I kind of understand her sister. It's a stressful time, and brides-to-be want all the support they can get. I'm not sure I'd ever ask a friend to help me set up decorations, but I'd love a shoulder to cry on when it gets too overwhelming. That said, there's a difference between being there for emotional support and being expected to give up your entire vacation week. While family milestones are important, personal boundaries matter too, and taking care of yourself doesn't make you a bad sister. Sometimes, the most helpful thing you can do is simply show up when it truly counts without sacrificing your personal boundaries.