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AITAH for refusing to lend my friend cash while I save for a house?
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Boundary equals betrayal to people who benefit from your flexibility. They will call it heartless so they do not have to call it what it is, which is unsustainable. You did not reject a person. You declined a transfer request from your future to their present. The math does not apologize.
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Hold the line. Goals are not cute slogans. They are decisions stacked over time, often in silence, often while other people label it selfishness because sacrifice looks impolite when you are used to being rescued. Buy the house. Let the group chat simmer. Real friends clap when the key turns. The rest can Venmo each other the moral high ground.
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