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Daughter refuses to buy a new car after parents give hers to her brother, parents demand she figure out a way to still drive them around: ‘I just roll my eyes now’

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    Aitah for telling my parents that their transportation wasn't my problem after they gave my car to my brother?

    Okay that title is a little click It was their car that I have maintained, and paid the registration and insurance on for years.
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    They have every right to give it away. My mom doesn't drive and my dad had his license taken away
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    I live a couple of blocks away from them and I work from home. I don't really need a car except for getting groceries and running my folks around.
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    My dad's car was a Jeep Grand Cherokee that was only three years old when he lost his license. It was fully paid off so I just took over paying for insurance and registration.
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    It was nice to have a car for errands and for running errands for my folks. And it is a much nicer car than I would have gotten for myself.
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    My brother was over a couple of months ago and he was pi er than usual about me getting a free car. He was hollering about how I'm the golden child and my parents give me everything.
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    So my dad told me to give the car back so he could give it to my brother since it would be fair because I got to use it for free for four years.
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    Like I said it's not my car and I really don't need one. My brother lives across town. A good 45 minutes away. I live five minutes away.
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    My mom called me on Friday a couple of weeks ago to remind me that she had a hearing aid appointment. I reminded here that I no longer had a car.
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    She ended up taking a cab because my brother was at work. My dad called me to ask me to come over and talk.
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    So I walked my dog Bruno over to see them. My dad said that I had four years to save up to buy my own car and he wanted to know when I was going to buy one.
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    I told him I don't need a car. I'm happy getting Walmart to deliver my groceries because I'm not like my mom and insist on inspecting every stalk of celery before it goes in my cart.
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    Both of us live on a good bus route that takes us downtown of we need to go to the doctor or anything like that. I said I wasn't planning on buying a car.
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    He said he hoped that I'm not expecting him to buy me a car just to run errands for them. I said I DO NOT NEED A CAR.
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    I work from home. My clients see me in my home. My salon is on the main floor of my house and I have a nice basement suite for me and Bruno.
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    I order supplies that get delivered, I order groceries that get delivered, I ordered stuff from Amazon that gets delivered. I don't need a car or the expense of a car.
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    I told him to get my brother to run them around since he has a car now. My dad had the decency to look embarrassed.
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    He said that my brother took our mom for groceries once and acted like it was a huge imposition and made her cry.
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    So they didn't want to ask him for favors. I pointed out that they could just ask for the car back but that was also a non starter.
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    I said that I would not be getting a car but that if he wants I will split the cost of a car share membership.
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    That way I can take a bus to the nearest car and use it for a few hours when they need a ride. He agreed but he thinks I should pay the whole thing.
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    I reiterated that I do not need a car. And that if he keeps it up I won't even split the cost with him.
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    He thinks I'm being ungrate and childish because I had an almost new car for free for four years. I just roll my eyes now.
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    EDIT

    I changed a word because my father didn't use it he just implied it. Also I stopped paying the insurance on the car which is still registered to my dad.
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    The registration is paid for for the year already. Also I did use the car for personal stuff sometimes.
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    Getting together with girlfriends and going on dates. I don't like men knowing where I live before I get to know them.

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