'The moment he meets my sister, his attention shifts to her': Beautiful 20-year-old sister constantly receives attention, making 23-year-old sister avoid the same social settings as her after feeling invisible

No matter how much we adore our sisters, the built-in besties who have been by our sides since day one, there will always be some sort of unspoken competition or comparison, if not between the sisters themselves, it will likely be delivered by those around them.

Whether their secret weapon is beauty or brains, personality or 'aura', no two people will ever be held to identical standards for every category. So, comparing yourself to another person, especially your own sister, is forever a losing game.

Because there is only one her…but great news, there is only one of you, too!

So when this certain sister is left feeling invisible, as a result of her sister's overwhelming beauty and the compelling attention she is constantly receiving from the men around them. She decides that her only viable option to maintain a sliver of her self-esteem would be to distance herself from her sister in any mutual social settings.

However, some would agree that if we love our sisters beyond explanation, why would we want to distance ourselves from them?

Because at the end of the day, it's essential to uncover what holds more value to us in the long run: a bright, shiny spotlight dangling over our heads, or the unbreakable bond of sisterhood?

‘Sisters are different flowers from the same garden’, just because these flowers may look, smell, feel, and even grow differently, does not mean that one is better than the other - They hold the same amount of worth to their garden, which would be nothing without both of their uniqueness and beauty. Just like sisters, similarly to those in the story below, they are destined to experience comparison, but that does not take away from their individual worth and desirability.
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'The moment he meets my sister, his attention shifts to her': Beautiful 20-year-old sister constantly receives attention, making 23-year-old sister avoid the same social settings as her after feeling invisible

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