'My gf wasn’t too fond of the idea': Woman adopts new kitten, but her new girlfriend's cold reaction sparks second thoughts about the relationship

This feline tail started when one hooman adopted a kitten, receiving it free from a friend on Facebook, and finally fulfilled her dream of having a cat after moving into her own place. But her girlfriend isn't exactly purring with excitement. Claiming it's about "financial responsibility," she admits (in her own words) to sounding a bit unhinged about not liking cats. Weeks go by, and the girlfriend still hasn't met the kitten since he needed meds and shots, but things start to really unravel when the pawrent ordered a custom cat calendar. Four copies, to be specific. As any devoted cat parent would.

Instead of laughing along, the girlfriend responds with a cold thumbs up and passive-aggressive texts like, "Take care of your cat and have fun with him." Ouch. Meanwhile, the cat's been a total emotional support floof. Bringing peace, independence, and joy. He's her first pet all to herself, and she's made it clear: the cat stays.

This isn't just about a kitten. It's about being with someone who supports the things that make you feel happy and whole. When a tiny ball of fluff does more for your peace of mind than your partner does, it might be time to paws and reflect.

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Looks like the relationship dynamic is shifting with the new cat in the picture. Sometimes it just takes a little time to adjust and find balance. Hopefully, they’ll work through it together soon!
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The relationship with the cat is a total win-win. Pawrent gets all the love and gives plenty back. Now it’s just about helping the girlfriend see how special that bond can be too!
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Sometimes the best move is to be upfront and have an honest conversation. Maybe she doesn’t see a future with a cat, or maybe something else is really bothering her beneath the surface.
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