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    19-year-old sister and her two older brothers defy their parents and take their cat to an emergency vet visit, despite the parents saying that it's too expensive: 'They're worried about costs and are frustrated with us'

    Cats are low-maintenance pets, right? That's what everyone says about them, at least. And that's true to an extent. Most of the time, cats just nap adorably and snack and meow and don't do much. And even during their crazier moment, when your cat suddenly decides to cause chaos out of nowhere and for no particular reason, then… well, that doesn't happen all that often. But it's not true that they are easy pets to have. Having a pet - no matter what pet it is - comes with responsibilities. And emergencies happen. 

    You have to understand this before adopting a cat. You have to be prepared for the fact that there might be some unexpected expenses sometimes - things beyond food and litter. If that knowledge makes you second guess getting a cat, that's fine, but once you have the cat, there is no place for second guessing. Cats are part of the family, and when they have medical emergencies, you can't just ignore it because it might be an unexpected expense. 

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      "[Am I wrong] for bringing my cat to the emergency vet with my siblings against my parents wishes?"

      I'm worried about costs too but at the same time I'm not because I'm really worried about my cat
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      I (19f) with my two older brothers arrived 20 mins away from our town at night to go to emergencies for our cat (also reccomended by our vet) who hasn't eaten at all since last week after few visits to the vet as well during the week.
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      I understand their reasoning to be upset though because they're my parents, they're worried about our safety, they're worried about costs and frustrated with us.
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      I'm worried about costs too but I feel like such an a_h_le for going against my parents wishes but at the same time I don't because I'm really worried about my cat. Sorry if this is bad.
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      UPDATE: my cat had x rays done and another test we have to wait to receive results but I contacted foundations for financial assistance so we don't worry our parents with cost;
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      thank you everyone for letting me know things I didn't know and understanding my parents perspective more!
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      her x rays are fine, we just need the other tests results and we're able to have full coverage on her treatment plan I'm really happy!!!
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    • Look, we get it. Treatments for cats can be expensive, and sometimes, it does hurt the pocket a bit more than you expect it would. But this is part of having a cat. Emergencies happen with cats - just like they do with humans. And if you are not ready to deal with them, then maybe you are not ready for owning a cat in the first place.

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      utahforever79 INFO: if you're 19 and your brother are older, are the 3 of you paying the bill? ER vet can run thousands of dollars. INFO: What kind of discussions did you and your siblings and parents have about the cat before you disobeyed them?
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      INFO: whose cat is it? And by that I mean who lives with the cat, does the litter box, gives her medicine, takes her to the vet, cleans up the rug when she vomits, buys her food, feeds her daily, tops off her water bowl, washes her bowls, buys her toys, and is generally responsible for her?
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      Top-Profession3827 OP I cannot pay but my middle sibling is paying for it. Not the oldest either he's not working.
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      The argument before was us asking our mother for a ride tomorrow but she refused and said she was annoyed with us and our cat. She's mostly worried about the costs of the visits and whatever treatment plant they offer. Our father threatened us saying he'd turn off the electricity and said we're stupid and he said to not bother him anymore he has work tomorrow. My sibling who's paying for it and I are the ones who take care of her. He pays for all her food.
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    • We are glad to hear that things worked out, no matter how they did. But we also agree that something has to be done so that when a situation like this arises next, the cat won't be in the same situation again. The cat's well-being should come first. 

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      Doenut55 There's 3 adult children and only 1 working. Your parents are concerned with costs because they can't afford all of you anymore. Feeding 5 adult humans, pets, and bills had burned all mercy to the pets by extension NTA. But maybe the 3 of you siblings can move out with the cat?
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      Top-Profession3827 OP Yeah that's what I was considering too. Luckily the bill wasn't too much but we couldn't afford the entire treatment plan... I do plan to start working I have interviews scheduled, especially so it'd be easier on my parents, all three of us are planning on moving out in the future but individually. Thank you for this, I really needed a reminder of what it must be like for my parents.
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      littlebitfunny21 NTA thank you for taking care of the kitty, I hope they get better soon.
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      RocknRight NTA. You're 19 and your siblings are older. I am sure three adults are capable of travelling 20 minutes. You are absolutely right to take your cat for vet care. Not eating is a sign that can't be ignored. Best of luck.
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      Renbarre You are paying for it, it is your choice. I hope they find what's wrong with your cat.
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      When you have a pet you sometimes meet that wall. Vet vs money. It can be a hard choice to make and needs to be thought through first. Your brother is paying for it, you might want to start a fund on your side to save some money so that your brother isn't the only one to pay. It will also help if you have further needs.
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