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21-year-old living in dad's house refuses to adhere to stepmom's demand not to eat food in their room after discovering no one else follows the rule: ‘She is picking favorites’

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    "I'm fully capable of cleaning up after myself"
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    AITAH For eating in my room when my Dads girlfriend says i cant.

    For context im 21 live with my dad. My dad's girlfriend/ wife of 10 years has a rule in the house (her/ my dads house) where you cant eat anywhere but the kitchen. I understand
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    her rules and try to follow them however i feel she is picking favorites.(Shes not my mom) however she has her own son who is 24 who she has witnessed take food to his
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    room on several occasions and says nothing about it. Whenever i try to do the same she tells me no and argues with me. Whenever i try to bring up the fact she lets her
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    son do it she just says "i dont let him he just wont listen so i dont bother" AITAH for not following the rules? Btw i know this is insignificant just kinda want other's opinions
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    thanks. Edit- i should maybe mention her son moved out a few months ago so she also likes to use the reason " well he's not here anymore so it doesn't matter. Also My dad is
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    amazing but he doesn't stick up for me and i don't blame him he kinda just stays outta it. He probably doesn't want the headache. 2ND EDIT thanks for all the answers
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    whether you agree or not. a couple things to clear up. YES i do pay rent and NO i do not make a mess in my room nor have i ever. Im an adult and i am capable of not spilling my
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    food and even if i were to make a mess i clean up after myself and help do other things around the house. As far as i know this rule really has no reason behind it. Just
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    one of those stupid parent rules. If i were a child i would understand but I'm fully capable of cleaning up after myself.
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    Solid-Feature-7678 "i dont let him he just wont listen so i dont bother" Welp, there is your answer. Just don't listen to her and she will eventually stop bothering you.
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    TombstoneBound "Oh, I'm sorry - did I misunderstand the instructions? I thought you said anybody who ignores you doesn't have to follow the rules."
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    TheRoadk IRapunzel Don't listen to her so she'll stop bothering. Don't listen to her all day everyday. She has explicitly told you that's the only way she'll stop whining at you. NTA.
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    SarcasticAnd "so, because my parents did a better job parenting, I'm expected to follow rules while your son doesn't have to? I'm taking a lesson from what you've taught him I'll not be - listening to this rule, thank you."
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    HarveySnake NTA, You can't have selective enforcement of a rule The real difference may be that her son just ignores her and you don't. Next time she tries to stop you, say nothing and walk on by. Ignore her.
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    legendexecutor What the h l is the big deal if you clean up after yourself each time you eat? NTA
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    Agile_Tumbleweed_153 Well, she is a tyrant and when can you move out?
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    thequiethunter You and he are both at home in your 20's complaining about house rules? YTA Get your own place and live how you want. Otherwise... I would be quiet. Not your home. As for him, that is her problem. Not yours.
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    xaxztjs OP How old are you if you dont mind me asking? Because apparently almost everyone in this comment section thinks a 21 year old is supposed to have 100k in the bank and be able to move out. This isnt 1970 dude the economy is out of control. No way a 21 year old working a job is moving out. Seriously.
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    Affectionate-Log-260 What is the stated basis for the rule? Pests/vermin? Smell? Missing cutlery? I'd try to come to a compromise
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    xaxztjs OP No basis just a rule

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