Woman insists on going on free vacation with ex-boyfriend despite being in relationship with someone else, her current boyfriend catches the red flag early: “Even if she’s considering this trip you’re not her boyfriend”

Hey there internet creatures. When there's no trust in a relationship, you don't have anything to stand on. Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Without trust how can there be happiness, how can there be true laughter or peace of mind? Predicating the relationship on deceit or deception will eventually catch up to you. It may be hard to sunder the tether between you two, but it's better to do it early on amongst signs of deception rather than waiting it out. Espousing detachment early on is better than staying. I've been in both situations, and it takes a lot of work. I've definitely stayed in relationships too long trying to make a broken thing work, and I've also ran away quickly in the beginning from the first red flag.

In the story below, the protagonist is in a relationship with a woman who asks him if she can go on a private vacation with her ex-boyfriend. The ex's reasoning: that he wants to "make up for the bad times." Buddy, this girl is in a relationship with someone else. Go take your regrets and self-loathing and put it on another girl. Redeem yourself with someone who isn't your ex, unless you want to get back together with her. Read the full story for all the juicy details.

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Woman insists on going on free vacation with ex-boyfriend despite being in relationship with someone else, her current boyfriend catches the red flag early: “Even if she’s considering this trip you’re not her boyfriend”

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to have a free holiday with her ex?

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Woman insists on going on free vacation with ex-boyfriend despite being in relationship with someone else, her current boyfriend catches the red flag early: “Even if she’s considering this trip you’re not her boyfriend”

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to have a free holiday with her ex?

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