18-year-old daughter refuses to have father’s new wife in graduation photos, she makes a scene, but bio mom comes to the rescue: “This isn’t your moment to be included”

Family is never easy. Even the most well-put-together families on the outside have their demons on the inside. I think that it happens sometimes that the more perfect a family looks on the outside, the more rotten and diseased it is on the inside. Feigning happiness to protect everyone from all the pain that's within. The thing about family is that we all have one, and they're a huge part of our lives whether we like it or not. Even if we choose no contact with family members, or low contact, our upbringings will haunt us forever. Not haunt us in a bad way, simply that our attachment styles, needs, wants, traumas, love lives, and trajectories are all predicated upon our family. It's a lot of pressure for parents, and it's almost surprising that people still want to have kids with all the responsibility involved.

In the story below, the narrator is a woman who had to divorce her husband after finding out he cheated. He's with his affair partner now, and they share custody of an 18-year-old daughter. It's her graduation, and the father insists on a group photo with everyone there, but his daughter is deeply uncomfortable with that. Her mother steps in.

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This woman needs to know her place. If her stepdaughter wants separate photos, it's her call, not the stepmother's. She's lucky the stepdaughter is even letting her to the graduation at all after sundering her family life. It's unforgivable, and this woman is incredibly entitled.
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18-year-old daughter refuses to have father’s new wife in graduation photos, she makes a scene, but bio mom comes to the rescue: “This isn’t your moment to be included”

AITA for refusing to include my cheating ex-husband's new wife in our daughter’s graduation photos?

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18-year-old daughter refuses to have father’s new wife in graduation photos, she makes a scene, but bio mom comes to the rescue: “This isn’t your moment to be included”

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