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    25-year-old woman collects over 150 signatures to ban kids from neighborhood swimming pool once a week, parents fight back when rule gets implemented: "Y'all, it was so peaceful"

    Sometimes, when adulting gets particularly overwhelming, it can be incredibly healing to put on a nostalgic childhood movie. If you're feeling particularly in touch with your inner child, you might even whip up a PB and J. However, as we age, many kids' movie antagonists become much more relatable as we can now see things from their perspective. For example, Ken from Bee Movie had every right to be upset that his long-term girlfriend was leaving him for a bee. Similarly, anyone over the age of 12 would act like Squidward if they had to deal with someone like Spongebob all day at work!

    In our story today, our protagonist might be considered the villain from the perspective of the children. She was the one that collected signatures to get them banned from the pool on Sundays. However, she did have a point, and the signatures only prove that she's not the only one that found the children's behavior at the pool disruptive. 

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      AITAH for getting my apartment complex to have adults only days at the apartment pool

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      I live in a military town; and my apartment complex is pretty close to base. As a result of this, my complex is 90% young singles or young families. I
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      25f work as nurse, and live alone at my apartment complex. I get stuck inside so much at work, so I cherish my outside time. I like to sit on the loungers by my apartment pool and read books.
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      A few weeks ago I was reading by the pool and some a h le kid with a water gain came up to me and sprayed my book beyond repair. The mom was apologetic but didn't offer to replace my book, and I immediately went to the office and reported them.
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      The family got a one month ban from using the pool for breaking its rules, and the mom was furious with me. The pool has a really extensive usage agreement that everyone has to sign, detailing behavior not allowed, mostly due to bad kids and a creepy guy that used to live here That's a whole nother story.
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      Anyways, I asked the office lady if there were any hours where kids weren't allowed, or if they would ever consider making adult only pool days. I was honestly exhausted because there are so many
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      badly behaved kids at the apartment pool. Most of these dependapotamases s k at disciplining their kids where I live. But maybe it's just gen z in general tbh. I would probably s k at parenting which is why I don't have kids, I'm too soft and don't like telling anyone what to do.
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      She said it was a good suggestion, and if I started a petition the owner of the complex would probably approve.
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      Well I did. And it got 150 signatures. I posted it on the door to the mailroom. It was approved that no children are allowed on Sundays. So many women are complaining on the complexes Facebook page
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      about it. But I've been this past Sunday and y'all, it was so peaceful. No screaming kids, no water guns, no crying, and I could even get in the pool. I don't think one day out of seven days a week is super unreasonable, and a ton of other people agreed.
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    • I do think that banning children for an entire weekend day is extremely excessive. It would make way more sense to have some adults-only hours throughout the week. 

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      gothangelblood That's the issue I see here. OP is NTA, but as a single working mother of 4 children, I would have sued the property management for denying my children access to a community resource I pay for. Sunday is one of the two days my work week allows for me to bring my children somewhere. So now I pay for it but can't use it?
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      No-Past2605 Dependapotamases. I live near a very large army base and we have the same problem. This is the best word that I have ever seen for describing them. Please consider this word acquired for future reference.
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      JuggernautUseful673 Thats a very common phrasing for them, like its everywhere to the point i doubt you live within even 100 miles of a military base
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      Vice_Kitty NTA I'm surprised it worked though. I used to work in property management & was told we couldn't have an adults-only day for the pools or clubhouse due to discrimination or something along those lines. Maybe it's state based.
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      jessieisokay Apparently it's a violation of the Fair Housing Act. I doubt this will be enforced for long. They can change it to "lap swim only" and it'll be legal.
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      SnooCookies9421 You're correct. I'm surprised the complex did this - it will be short lived and really problematic for the complex depending on how persistent and smart the person is who pushes back.
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      randomcharacters3 Yeah, nothing wrong with OP asking for adult only rules but getting all of Sunday is kind of crazy.
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      Even if it was "no kids from 8-10 am" or "5-7 pm" or whatever would be one thing but to lose an entire day of the weekend is harsh. If I lived there I would want a rebate for time in the pool that I was paying for but banned from.
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      Dogs Ducks I am the parent of a 15 month old and pregnant, and I would be the FIRST person to sign the petition in bold letters!
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      But then again, I'm also a responsible parents with extremely strict boundaries. It's usually the ones who are the most permissive that also get the angriest when their kids behave the worst.
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      peakpenguins NTA, because ultimately it was the apartment complexes choice. You asked, you got some signatures, and they made a decision. If people don't like it, they're welcome to do the same and maybe get the rule changed back if it's that important to them.
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    • Not only was it ultimately the choice of the complex owner, but 150 people also agreed to this.

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      MrMillsisafag Exactly-management made the call. You just used the system like anyone else could.
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      Federal-Ferret-970 NTA. My kids are all grown up. But even when they were little i tried to ensure they weren't little monsters around other people. I would have welcomed a day where I could go down and not be inundated by little monsters who's parents don't give a crop how not well behaved their kids were.
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      Glad Researcher9096 im sure some of the parents voted yes too. LOL that way they can have a pool day and have someone else watch the kiddos and know that their down time doesnt include kids period. As a mom, I would vote for this reason.
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      NTA ouijabore One day a week for just adults sounds wonderful, and clearly you aren't the only person who wants it.
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      It's one thing to get annoyed with kids just existing in the pool vs. getting annoyed with kids being terrors (which is the case here.) Amenities aren't just for kids either - they're for everyone.
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      aitahswimming OP I don't hate kids and I don't mind being around kids. A lot of my friends have kids. But the kids here are truly awful. That was not the first time some a hole kid decided to soak me with a water gin, just first time my book got ruined.
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