Wife considers marital separation after she finds out her husband spent all of the money in his savings without telling her: ‘I feel completely blindsided’

Financial compatibility is something to consider if you're thinking about spending the rest of your life with someone. Of course, having similar interests and being physically attracted to your spouse is very significant, too, once you get married, money because a big part of many conversations. Oh, you're combining finances? You better hope that your husband doesn't have a secret gambling expense. Does your wife have a shopping obsession? Say goodbye to your 800+ credit score. Money, unfortunately, makes the world go 'round. The fallout of financial problems that could have been prevented in marriage is detrimental, especially when you're actively lying about it.

Such is the case in this next story. The woman who posted the tale explains that she and her husband use each of their incomes for separate things, but both have enough income rolling in every month to save. Well, her husband has secretly been spending his existing savings on random things to the point where there's nothing left. Understandably, the woman is considering separating from him for a while (if not forever) because of this transgression. Scroll to read the entire story.

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The woman and her husband are both in their late twenties, so in a position where losing some savings might not be the end of the world. However, the issue lies not only in the financial loss but the loss of trust as well. If she can't trust her husband with money that should be set aside for their future, how can she trust him with anything else? There's a reason he hadn't mentioned the loss of his savings, and it's likely because he knew what he was doing.
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