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31 Memes from Your Boyfriend That Prove His 'Loading Face' Is Actually Just His Love Language

Ladies, let's address the vacant-eyed elephant in the room: we modern-day boyfriends have the ability to achieve a meditative state that would make Buddhist monks jealous, especially when you're telling us something important. You know, that through-the-horizon stare that suggests our soul has temporarily left our body to grab a drink. 

Behind that expression, which is somewhere between loading screen and a 'You shut down your computer because of a problem' pop-up. There's actually some neural activity going on upstairs. 

Now I know we respond to your detailed stories with a slick combination of grunts and uh-huhs and throw the occasional wow that could either mean I'm listening or I'm thinking about cheese, into the mix.

But I promise, most of us, some of the time, are paying attention. Our faces might suggest we're contemplating the aerodynamics of a potato but we're honestly quite invested.

We collect these little moments like a hamster hoarding treats. The way you try to explain something serious but accidentally say something completely different, then get agitated trying to backtrack? Precious.

So scroll through these 31 embodiments of the girlfriend spirit while you're reevaluating the deep, newly found meanings of your guy's grunts and groans.

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  • 01
    Me after a slight inconvenience arson.
    via froggy_society
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  • 02
    me when my joke came out a little too mean
    via antisocial_memes1

  • Like when you meant to say “You were sweet today thank you” but for some reason decided to add “Most of the time you’re just annoying.” I, I mean, WE get the meaning behind the word salad, and honestly, it’s adorable.

  • 03
    When you ask her where you wanna eat and she doesn't know 145
    via talesofintrovert

  • When you’re in that legendary “I’m hungry but I don’t know what I want and everything you suggest is wrong” state? To our seemingly primitive brains, watching you reject seventeen restaurant suggestions while getting progressively hangrier is somehow both terrifying and sweet.

  • 04
    I AM UNCOMFORTABLE
    via onlygeeses
  • 05
    There must be somebody out there who's not so stingy with kisses.
    via 1salem_a_day
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  • 06
    When i'm angry and i hear someone say "she's always like that"
    via relatefy

  • And when you’re having a meltdown because you-know-who texted that passive-aggressive comment in the group chat that was definitely about that thing from three months ago that everyone else has forgotten about except you, we’re genuinely invested in the drama. It just won’t stop us from staring into the void like we’re contemplating the meaning of socks.

  • 07
    Me as soon as I get anywhere: I kinda want to leave
    via philosophy.shirts

  • So next time we're staring blankly into space while you tell us about your day, remember: behind that empty facade is a highlight reel of you being insanely you. We might look mummified, but we're actually somewhat alive in there.

  • 08
    she aspiress not everyone has access to me i love peace more than attention.
    via temperanceandco
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  • 09
    i am allowed to be careful in choosing who has access to my energy HOPEHEALINGARTS
    via temperanceandco
  • 10
    Me when I hear the word "no"

    A complex relationship with the word 'no' you got there.

    via meanintrovert
  • 11
    In my villain era but it's just me using the word 'no'

    but you're handling it real nice!

    via temperanceandco
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  • 12
    Me after finding something I blamed the entire house for stealing: Girlzzzclub
    via relatefy
  • 13
    If my mouth won't say it, my face definitely will: jeng
    via relatefy
  • 14
    me leaving the house without breakfast, dehydrated & 3.5 hours of sleep
    via relatefy
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  • 15
    "I'm not tired" Also me:
    via relatefy
  • 16
    Bestie: YOU WON'T BELIEVE WHAT HAPPENED Me:
    via sarcasmhoes
  • 17
    When you promised you weren't going to be crazy anymore but sh starting not to add up
    via superficial_memes
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  • 18
    Me looking at my bank account after I treated myself
    via sarcasmhoes
  • 19
    me: let me call you right back!! also me: ALL rhode
    via sarcasmhoes
  • 20
    When someone has explained something to you three times and you still don't get. So you just smile politely
    via introvertedbiatch
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  • 21
    when I accidentally open a chat that I was ignoring:
    via sarcasmhoes
  • 22
    me reading the messages via the notifications bar & pretending to not be online
    via antisocial_memes1
  • 23
    Me late at night after saying goodnight to everyone, just to chill alone:
    via meanintrovert
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  • 24
    Me debating if I'm going to let it slide or start something

    Boy, just turn around reeeeaaal slow and walk away.

    via hilarioustextx
  • 25
    me: im sad me after one french fry: life ain't too heck
    via introvert.fc
  • 26
    My love language is saying the most random stuff so i can keep talking to you
    via introvertaccess
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  • 27
    Me acting shocked when my poor choices lead to negative outcomes: @insta_raccoon_gram
    via adorable_raccoon_memes
  • 28
    Nobody believes me when I say I'm going thru hard shi.. How I look while going thru hard shi:
    via p.s.kaguya
  • 29
    @SOFTCORE TRAUMA me when i realize that being my most authentic self is both liberating and anxiety-inducing
    via @SOFTCORE TRAUMA
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  • 30
    kinda worried about something hyacinthiart don't know what it is yet
    via p.s.kaguya
  • 31
    When someone tell me it's easy peeasy lemon squeezy, but for me it's always stressy, depreesy, lemon zesty
    via p.s.kaguya

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