Suspicious girlfriend demands boyfriend give his social security number, claiming she wants to check his criminal record, he refuses, she puts an ultimatum on him

Welcome back ladies and gentlemen of the internet. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. Without trust, there's no foundation or grounding for anything else. There's no respect, peace, or proper communication. You may think you've solved the issues of trust between you two, and then one day they don't respond for hours, or a name or place is brought up that you don't want to remember. There are too many instances that it will never work once trust has been broken. In all its fragility and vulnerability, one must feel safe and secure with their partner.

In this story, the protagonist has some trust issues. She had a bad situation in the past with an ex, and now she's asking for her boyfriend's SSN to do a background check on him. He, of course, refuses, feeling deeply uncomfortable. However, it's a make it or break it situation for her. Either he does it, or they break up.

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Who on earth would give their SSN to anyone they're not married to? It's a huge infringement of trust, and just an unreasonable request. He clarifies later in the piece, that just her trust issues don't warrant this kind of request or expectation. She needs to come to term with her past in a way that doesn't require him breaking his boundaries.
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