Husband Finds Deleted Texts Between Wife and Her Coworker After Observing Suspicious Behavior, He Questions Their Marriage When She Refuses to Let Him See Her Phone: ‘I’d rather cut contact than let you see my phone’

Any healthy relationship should be predicated on trust, loyalty, and honesty. There's no excuse for lying to your partner's face, or hiding things behind their back. Although it may seem pedantic to have such stringent rules about betrayal, when you see the red flags that your partner could be hiding something from you or potentially cheating, there's only one answer – run! 

In this Reddit thread, the original poster (OP) is a man who has noticed some strange behavior from his wife while she's on her phone. They're used to an open phone policy, meaning each can use the other's phone if they need, and the other can see when they're texting. This rule starts to take a different shape as she starts a new job with new coworkers. She's in a small team, and they work very intimately. After he notices her behavior shift, he asks her to share her phone with him. This is the beginning of their end, but you'll still have to read the full story below for all the juicy details.