Man Hides Finances From Wife So Their Retirement Fund Grows, Despite Them Being Able to Retire Early

Welcome back ladies and gentlemen of the internet. In a marriage, your communication, dynamic, and relationship should be predicated on trust and honesty. It's a strange world we live in where people turn to the internet and strangers for guidance in their marriage, instead of just talking to their partners or a professional. 

Despite how a person chooses to cope with their relationship and marriage questions, money will always come up. Someone is usually in charge of finances in a marriage, and if that person has a question, it should be second nature to approach their partner about it. 

This brings us to the Reddit thread. The husband is in charge of the finances, and instead of telling his wife that they have plenty of money for retirement, he intentionally wants to keep it a secret. He wants them both to still be working hard, so that they end up with even more money than they planned. Now, you tell us whose side you're on.