‘Looks like I have a dress to return’: Fiancé rears his ugly side when he goes back on his no--birthday-gift policy and starts putting down his future wife, so she cancels the wedding

You must seriously consider your future before ever agreeing to marry someone. That's just common sense. It's more than just, "Can I live with a man who never remembers to put the toilet seat down?" It's also evaluating how you two handle arguments, tragedy, chaos, and more. What if they get fired and have trouble getting back on their feet? What if you get the postpartum blues really badly and need extra emotional support? Can you trust your future spouse to be able to handle all of these things without either of you losing your mind? 

It's difficult, but not impossible. And once you find that special someone, never let them go. However, if you are seeing constant red flags even before walking down the aisle, stop giving them excuses, sis. End it before it's too late! For example, this Redditor whose fiancé luckily reared his ugly side right before she made the biggest mistake of her life.