Both sides of a romantic partnership should take on equal wedding planning duties when they decide to start writing out an action plan for the big, special day. You want to feel like you're in this crazy thing called "life" together, and having support from your significant other typically makes everything less stressful for all. Both parties in the relationship should also possess equal excitement (although brides definitely daydream a bit more the minute they get a shiny rock on their finger.)
As a bride-to-be, it's not uncommon to notice your financé is a bit less enthused than you are. In a perfect world, grooms would be daydreaming about the perfect first dance song, the dreamy venue, and the flavor of the cake that you'll both cut into on your special day. The brides that get it, get it. The grooms that don't, well… end up in a position similar to the fiancé in this story.
This woman is dealing with sudden doubts about her engagement and potential (this is important later) wedding to her fiancé, who had proposed to her three years ago. They have been together for seven years, and have three children together. While the woman was pregnant with their second child, her fiancé proposed to her (against her wishes to be proposed to while pregnant). Since then, only she has taken on the planning side of things, going so far as to view a potential wedding venue alone. He is finding every excuse not to help with wedding planning, even when she suggests lowering their budget by DIYing decor and gathering financial assistance from her family. She has no idea when they'll get married, and looking at the ring on her hand without a set date in sight is leading her to consider calling it off until he gets his priorities straight.
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