Woman’s Lazy Fiancé Refuses to Put Work Into Their Move, She Reconsiders Their Relationship

Welcome back ladies and gentlemen of the internet. There are a few qualities of relationships that are essential for success. Any healthy relationship should consist of reciprocity, respect, understanding, good communication, among much more. Without empathy for your partner, or a willingness to work through issues, the relationship will go nowhere. You can't have an agreement on something, and then change your mind at the last minute, or drag your feet. Staying true to the situation and your partner is what matters. Through heated arguments it may feel like you and your partners are enemies, but at the end of the day, it's you two versus the world. 

This brings us to the Reddit thread. It's about a man who's dragging his feet about the prospect of moving with his partner. It's something they've talked about for a long time, and when push comes to shove, he still won't make any moves towards their future. He gaslights her, claiming she just wants him to do all the work. Do I see red flags?