‘I’m not helping if I’m not in the will’: Woman Refuses to Come to the Rescue to Her Injured Mother After Learning That She’s Cut From the Will

Welcome back ladies and gentlemen. Family is one of the most important things in the world. They're your origins, your home, and people who will always be in your life. Now, just because they're important does not mean you owe them everything. There should be a diligent balance and harmony in the relationship. There should be unconditional love, without neediness. There should be communication without force, and a yearning to spend time together without feeling obligated to. So what's the protocol when you do feel some of these negative emotions tied to family? 

Feeling obligated to help your family is never a good feeling, nor does it reflect a healthy dynamic. Help should be something you want to do, not something you feel you must do. And especially when you have another sibling who has no pressure whatsoever to help. As frustrating as it is, you do have the opportunity to put your foot down and not deal with this kind of treatment.