'You are being unnecessarily dramatic': Dentist refuses to attend brother's wedding because she doesn't like off-the-shoulder dresses

Wedding attire is often a contentious concept, though it really shouldn't be. Don't wear white if you're not the bride, and keep it formal. End of story. But there are so many rules and gradations of rules that everyone gets a little crazy. There's a whole subreddit dedicated to wedding fashion advice, and it gets heated. But in my mind, it's on the bride and groom to create a forgiving environment for attendees. You want everyone to have fun, after all… supposedly. 

But sometimes the pressure gets to people and they need to assert their power. That's exactly what happened in this recent story from Reddit where a bride's dress code caused some serious strife in her new family. Can't everyone just relax a little? However, commenters were divided on what the original poster should do in this situation. Read on for all the details and decide what you would have done.